Given this is flyertalk, I'm sure a number of us are of the opinion that Elite for both of you is the foundation for a home!

(Not likely to ever be a Mrs & Mrs SE here - I've got over 60K this year and it was too much travel for my comfort level. I will be gone 64/124 of the first days of 2010 and actually feel ill thinking about it. Dh did his MR for SE last night so we'll be using up our points as much as possible this year using IKK and will likely both just make E. We own our business so can use points for work travel and the cash saved will flow into our pockets anyway.)