I try to do everything myself, the hanging of the coat/jacket (unless an F-A is there within 30 secs, a few follow me right to my seat) putting the luggage in the overhead, handing over my tray, not demanding Seagrams 707 or Jack Daniels or wine every two minutes.

But I too notice the treatment... for both sexes. Surprisingly, by a small margin, the MALE flight attendants are nicer to me than the female. This is wierd.

But I have seen women being ignored, strugging with bags, etc when there are F-A's chatting away.

So I say let's SMASH the Glass Ceiling and treat all teh passengers equally. HEY! IT's the 19-90's and it's not fair to be treated differently.