Since we started this thread in January, I realized I wasn't being paranoid. I still get skipped over to have my coat hung so I just go and do it myself. What really bugs me is that the men who sit beside me always get asked first what they want to drink. They also get asked about refills much more frequently than I do. I also realized that it didn't matter whether I sat in the aisle or window seat. What is up with this? Thank goodness, meal choices are usually by my frequent flyer status or I'd never get my first choice!