Thank you Gabbysz. Your post is an amazing coincidence. I was just preparing to write UA my very first complaint letter telling them that they need to train their FAs to treat female biz travelers as well as they treat our male counterparts.

On my most recent flights, I have had my food rudely "dumped" on my tray while the man sitting across the aisle was pampered to no end. I've been passed over for drink orders, refills, etc.. I end up hanging up my own coat about 50% of the time. The worst part is the "attitude" some FAs have about women in biz/fc. You can physically feel it and it definitely makes my upgrade experience less appealing.