Hello everybody
Im new to FF, have been reading some posts but they don't exactly meet my criteria, so hopefully you can point me to the right direction to begin with.

1: i'm Vietnamese and fly with Vietnam Airline ~10 times per year. Their GoldenLotusProgram requires at least 12 flights per year to earn and mantain Silver membership on a year to year basic so I'm not qualified . And VN is small so mileage is low
They'll be joining skyteam in early 2010, so I'm looking for a skyteam program to be a long term member :-:

2: I fly an average of 30k miles a year from Orlando FL to VN, back and forth. (22k miles per round trip, once or twice a year). And 10 short flight in VN as mentioned above

I look for a program that is:
-easy to earn status (hopefully equivalent to Skyteam Elite plus) that doesn't require renewal too soon like VNAirline, or too many miles to renew.
-can share mileage with friends/family. can buy more mileage if needed
-easy and cheap mileage redemption for short flights in Asia
-100% miles are counted if possible, as I only buy cheap economy tickets.
-easy to earn BIG miles by shopping/special offers etc. But no hotels. I hate paying to expensive hotel as I'm in hotel business
-extra checked bags would be nice. I do shopping a lot.

Wow, I got the feeling that I'm asking for too much
So, thank you very much for taking your time to help me out

Sincerely,
Khiem Bui