Thanks for everyone that responded. I just got back from HNL and posting my experience re: the question I asked on this thread earlier:
1. HNL ticket counter opens at 930am (they are open from 545am - 645am also). I went to HNL at 930am and checked in 2 bags (of the 4 total) under my name and no questions asked even though I was on AA102, the 7pm DFW flight.
2. There were no problems checking the remaining bags under other family's names when all of us showed up 2 hours prior to departure.
3. They are strict about the weight limit (even as Elite) and I got dinged as mrs stuffed all the HI gifts (think boxes) into the large bag. My 2nd bag didn't have enough room for the adjustments between the 2 bags. FYI, there are self service scales when you enter the "Lobby" area for AA in case you are not sure.
-miles
P.S. If you do this, try to get someone to drive you (if possible to save on the parking). The parking is steep (for HNL) $1 for 1st 30min, and $2 addl for 31min - 60min. I was there 31min total and had to pay the $3.