Thanks for your input. My daughter is only 4 so your suggestions for LAX may be a bit overwhelming for me. Usually when we do LAX my brother is able to come get us and drop us at his house in Gardena and my mom and dad meet us there, but since they stopped doing the nonstop from EUG to LA on QX we haven't had much incentive to do LAX. The other thing I like about BUR is the super short security lines and I have found BUR TSA to be fairly friendly and really helpful with my daughter was just an infant.
I am going to check ONT again but may end up paying the extra for Burbank because I like the 11 am departure time better. Thanks again. Can't wait to get back home. Just sorry I will be there too early for the fall meet at Santa Anita.