These are the stories that make me appreciate some of the über-strict FF policies on mileage transfers and redemptions that make award tickets extremely difficult to obtain on business routes and at the last minute.

As far as elite elitism goes, yes, it's alive and well; you're kidding yourself if you deny it. I do get a bit of a rush as I pass the hordes in the airport during elite boarding, and it felt great when my FB Silver status got me the last available seat on the last flight of the day during irrops, in first class, nonetheless, sparing me the fate of the 30 other travelers on the standby list who had to figure out a place to stay in ATL for the night. The way I see it, getting elite status is a bit like winning a strategy game -- segments here, nights there, moving things and timing things just right. The earning has to do with the traveling, not paying, reflected in the fact that you don't earn airline miles upon booking a ticket or a hotel but instead upon flying a flight or spending the night. It's rude to flaunt anything, elite status included, but it's understandable to feel a bit proud for achieving it and upset when you feel like you've lost some of what you've earned.

With that being said, what's the point of this thread? Oh right, lounge access with Marriott Silver. jerseygirl's suggestion was great. Nothing's guaranteed, but see what her suggestion gets you. If it doesn't work, ask at check-in how much an upgrade would cost; they might be willing to make a deal.