Sorry for her horrible experience. When you get different jurisdictions, it tends to raise a lot of egos being puffed up. Particularly as jurisdiction is a basic element of a case. Still, considering how crowded court dockets are, I'm surprised the judge got upset a case was leaving. They're usually under pressure to get rid of cases as fast as possible.
This suggests he's an .... Unfortunate, but many judges are certifiable morons. Particularly those in offshoot branches like family law court, etc. but you find em everywhere.
I once worked for the DA's office in traffic court. Commissioner (wannabe judge) called me up 3 times and chewed me out asking why I wrote a deal the way I did. Finally, after the 3rd time, the clerk piped up and told him to quit yelling at me cuz I was doing it right. I later found out that egotistical moron eventually got appointed to the Superior Court. I feel sorry for anyone appearing in front of him.