I am sorry you found my post unfriendly. I give a great deal of my time to the community... sorry you do not see my offer to you as "generous".
I tried to be as helpful as possible.... and notice that I had offerred early on to help you. I was just indicating why some people (not myself) might be reluctant to help people they perceive as not giving back to the community.
I wish you the best on your quest to learn.