QUOTE=Wainwright;11523292]I've read about the update as well. This is the single largest complaint I have with the iPhone. Typically, though, when people have sent me a message with either a picture or video, AT&T sends a message with a link to a website and a code to view the files. Perhaps you should get in touch with AT&T support and find out why you aren't getting that.
Oh, and of course, make sure your friend is sending it to the correct number.
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I do have some dumb friends....

I assumed as you stated, I should at least get a message telling me I have a text that iphone can't open. I'll call AT&T today.