Sharon,

I am truly sorry to hear about this bad news. Hope you get to spend as much quality time with your sister as possible.

Girl, you have to stay strong yourself as well. If I understand correctly, it seems the female members of your family are among the high-risk group of getting cancer. I hope you'll take every possible preventive and precautious measure to stay healthy. I'll send oriental wisdom your way if I spot some good tips that are easier to practice for westerners.

Hang in there!