It's unfortunate that people get that petty. Now that I think of it, my Ex had a lot of Marriott points and Continental miles. I focused on getting full custody of our son (unfortunate circumstances made the Ex unfit to take care of a child), no future obligations towards the Ex (he tried) and a fair share of the equity in the house and the investments. Yeah, I suppose the points had value but you choose your battles. My attorney never even asked about their possible existence but she did a heck of a good job with the things that mattered.