definitely amankila. kilasari has infinity pool, indrakila has best view IIRC, amankila has 2BR and butler. comparison photos >
http://www.flyertalk.com/forum/8739059-post13.html
http://www.flyertalk.com/forum/8740916-post14.html
ubud >
amandari - experience
FS sayan - view
residences at como shambhala estate - accommodations
perhaps
vuittonsofstyle can comment on whether amandari has dealt with the "tired" comments
vuittonsofstyle, you book the residences for double occupancy.. from ~$2K/nt. (bespoke programme)