If the account is in your husbands name, then they should have sent the card to him. I have an account in my name and my wife is a second card-holder on my account. All promotional materials are addressed to me.
Why they sent you the promotion for a 2 year old account escapes me.
There's another promo going on now. Perhaps you could take advantage of this one? (Up to 5k bonus awarded for individual purchases of more than $500 with some exclusions. Bonus points awarded after the end of the promotion. Not targetted and registration is not required. Savings Bonds purchases are excluded, as are a few other cash-equivalents.)
See Lurker's Q&A in this post:
http://www.flyertalk.com/forum/Forum74/HTML/008633.html
-David
[This message has been edited by LIH Prem (edited Dec 01, 2003).]