I fly all the time, and not necessarily for the museums or the culture or the restaurants. I have been with another half for twenty years.
I work out, am very outgoing, and all I ever got was a wink! How do you find these FAs and can I order one with my next trip? Can you order them through duty free? Do you fill out a form in the inflight magazine and order one? Perhaps I don't get them because I am now only silver elite. Next year, I will have to get up to Gold, and see if I get more rewards!
I did have a straight lady flight attendant upgrade us to first class because we were both so tired after three days (or was it four) of partying in Madrid - but that's another story. I tried it a second time, but it didn't work.