singita is best regarded / most discussed here, for south africa. there seemed to be some variance in reports from the different lodges though.
one major thing for malewane from virtuoso
Upgrade to Royal Suite on arrival, subject to availability
Complimentary bottle of sparkling wine in room, per night
12 noon early check-in, subject to availability
4 PM late check-out, subject to availability
suites - $1765
royal/malewane suites - $4735
royal/malewane suites include
- private butler
- private chef
- private game drives
- 4 complimentary massages per suite per day
- laundry
parallel thread in africa >
http://flyertalk.com/forum/showthread.php?t=892598