Tipping for large group meals
Feb 7, 2019, 7:53 am
#31
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I've seen this also. I zeroed out the tip and didn't leave anything. It's not a tip if is it already calculated into the bill. If the server has a problem with that then they should take it up with management.
May 4, 2019, 6:38 am
#33
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Debating the merits of tipping vs. paying more (and thus charging more) is an endless debate without a good answer. There are local customs the world over which impact the way things are done. Those are not changing anytime soon and won't be solved as part of any one meal (if they need solving at all).
Group meals require a bit of diligence for the organizer. Most restaurants are quite clear about whether they add a tip and how much it is. It is also a perfectly fair question to ask when booking, whether the tip goes to the employees and how it is calculated. Most likely, the tip is on the total check, thus including taxes. Once you understand what the deal is, you can make a decision as to whether the restaurant represents good value for what you want. Whether the tab comes to $75 per person including tip or there is no tip, but the price is $75 really makes little difference.
Group meals require a bit of diligence for the organizer. Most restaurants are quite clear about whether they add a tip and how much it is. It is also a perfectly fair question to ask when booking, whether the tip goes to the employees and how it is calculated. Most likely, the tip is on the total check, thus including taxes. Once you understand what the deal is, you can make a decision as to whether the restaurant represents good value for what you want. Whether the tab comes to $75 per person including tip or there is no tip, but the price is $75 really makes little difference.
May 4, 2019, 6:49 am
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Oh, dear! You were right. Just took a closer look at the check. THEY ADDED THE GRATUITY. Subtotal 560, Tax 60, 18% Gratuity 101... but on the CC receipt the option to add a tip. Which of course is the only place I looked at not the detailed check. Now I feel very stupid... well... more than one lesson learned and a happy waitress for that evening
