Automatic Upgrade Request Inhibitor
#61
Join Date: Nov 2012
Programs: BA Bronze, United 1K, HH Gold, SPG Platinum, Marriott Platinum
Posts: 3,468
My wife and I do the same although it seems that we always travel together on long international long hauls. When she travels with me on one of my work trips, if I get upgraded by the airline, I sit up front on the way to my meeting, she sits up front on the return. Sometimes, she books an award for herself in an upper class: if I don't get upgraded, she gives me her seat on the way to my meeting, she remains in her seat on the return.
#62
Join Date: Nov 2014
Location: USA
Programs: UA Gold, Marriott Gold
Posts: 848
I was traveling to a company meeting, and as luck would have it, a colleague was on my same flight. I as a 1K scored the upgrade, she had zero status and sat in the back. Somehow she fit that into her presentation and resented me ever since. Privately she thought I should have given her my seat. I honestly didn't know what to say to her, but I was annoyed that she started her presentation with singling me out about the trip.
Her words: "My husband is a 1K and always gives me his seat when we travel together". My response was that I do the same for my wife, but you aren't her, I simply work with you. Nevertheless, she made my life a living hell as she had favoritism with our boss and I finally gave in and left the company.
The only thing unfair in what you posted was her treatment of you and her assumption that you should have given her your upgrade.
#63
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Colorado
Programs: UA Gold (.85 MM), HH Diamond, SPG Platinum (LT Gold), Hertz PC, National EE
Posts: 3,232
My response to her wouldn't be fit for a public forum but I'd have been tempted to respond along the lines of "I do the same for my wife but she always _______ when we travel together. Am I to understand you want to do the same?" As stated before, she's an execrable horrible excuse for a human being.
The only thing unfair in what you posted was her treatment of you and her assumption that you should have given her your upgrade.
The only thing unfair in what you posted was her treatment of you and her assumption that you should have given her your upgrade.
will mean much less travel, and clawing my back to 1K will likely never happen again. I’m ok with that.