Thanks for all this great info.
-Will be calling the 1K line for a Japanese meal
-Will go to the NH lounge instead of the UA
- Will call ANA to reserve seats.

I LOVE LOVE LOVE the gel pillows. I use them for lumbar support. I always ask for them as soon as I get on the plane. Also, only once recently have we had a flight long enough to get the pjs. They are so COMFORTABLE, that I use them at home. Definitely ask for both.