What's your weirdest seat-mate behavior?
#93
Join Date: Mar 2015
Programs: UA 1K
Posts: 294
I totally get the stinky feet part. And I also get the hygiene issue. But here's my confusion on both: on the first, people seem to have a revulsion for bare feet even when there's no stink. As I said, I don't walk barefoot in planes for hygiene reasons. But I also don't wear my shoes in my home for the converse reason (i.e., I don't want to bring in the germs and dirt from the outside and smear them all over my house). But there are millions of people who have no problems walking all over their homes (and some even on beds) with their exterior footwear. Something doesn't add up for me. I think there's some other deeper reason for why bare feet are apparently not acceptable in certain (predominantly western) cultures, whereas they're perfectly acceptable (and even mandated) in certain clean spaces in other cultures.
#94
Join Date: Apr 2013
Programs: SPG, AA, United
Posts: 1,813
I totally get the stinky feet part. And I also get the hygiene issue. But here's my confusion on both: on the first, people seem to have a revulsion for bare feet even when there's no stink. As I said, I don't walk barefoot in planes for hygiene reasons. But I also don't wear my shoes in my home for the converse reason (i.e., I don't want to bring in the germs and dirt from the outside and smear them all over my house). But there are millions of people who have no problems walking all over their homes (and some even on beds) with their exterior footwear. Something doesn't add up for me. I think there's some other deeper reason for why bare feet are apparently not acceptable in certain (predominantly western) cultures, whereas they're perfectly acceptable (and even mandated) in certain clean spaces in other cultures.
#95
Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: ORD
Programs: US Air, UA BA LH AI DELTA MARRIOTT CHOICE SGP
Posts: 9,883
Much has been foisted upon us by the "civilized society" over the years. As someone from non western "civilized" world I am always amused at comments about you should not eat with your hands ! My reply is, it is more satisfying, brings you "in contact" with nourishment, tastes better etc. I am then met with derisive or disdained looks. Gently I ask why do westerners from "civilized society" eat pizza or fried chicken with hands ? Met with silence! . I point out that somehow it feels more satisfying !!! !Neither can they answer how our forefathers ate.....Corollary to this on the other side, "Easterners" abhor the thought of being totally naked in presence of others as in a locker room. If you see one in his underwear, bet he is an immigrant!
#98
Join Date: Apr 2013
Programs: SPG, AA, United
Posts: 1,813
Much has been foisted upon us by the "civilized society" over the years. As someone from non western "civilized" world I am always amused at comments about you should not eat with your hands ! My reply is, it is more satisfying, brings you "in contact" with nourishment, tastes better etc. I am then met with derisive or disdained looks. Gently I ask why do westerners from "civilized society" eat pizza or fried chicken with hands ? Met with silence! . I point out that somehow it feels more satisfying !!! !Neither can they answer how our forefathers ate.....Corollary to this on the other side, "Easterners" abhor the thought of being totally naked in presence of others as in a locker room. If you see one in his underwear, bet he is an immigrant!
And it's not that I don't eat with my hands--my wife's Indian cooking is only eaten with hands. But I also know the risks are higher for a contaminant to enter my system. I actually eat pizza with a fork and knife, and most everything with utensils just to avoid soiling my hands even though I wash them too.
#102
Join Date: Mar 2015
Programs: UA 1K
Posts: 294
In regards to Samir correlating the rate of infectious diseases to the use of fingers, I'm sure in some instances diseases do spread because of that. But, by and large, the spread of diseases in poorer countries have more to do with the sorry state of public sanitation infrastructure, the close proximity that people and livestock live in, and less to do with whether they use their fingers or chopsticks or their nostrils. In fact in places that practice communal eating (parts of the Middle-East, Africa & parts of East & Central Asia) where it's not unusual for people eat out of common plates/bowls of food, the rate of infection is no higher once corrected for other factors.
The point of all of this is there are unhygienic habits being practiced in all cultures. They just happen to be different from each other. I think the argument of "my unhygienic practices are better than yours" is silly. Many of these practices don't often travel well across cultural boundaries. All of us -- both in the "civilized" world (oh, how I hate that word and its vile connotations) and the "uncivilized world" -- need to be more open to practices that we may not be familiar with. We're all capable of being "civilized" and "uncivilized" at the same time.
#104
Join Date: Apr 2013
Programs: SPG, AA, United
Posts: 1,813
In regards to Samir correlating the rate of infectious diseases to the use of fingers, I'm sure in some instances diseases do spread because of that. But, by and large, the spread of diseases in poorer countries have more to do with the sorry state of public sanitation infrastructure, the close proximity that people and livestock live in, and less to do with whether they use their fingers or chopsticks or their nostrils. In fact in places that practice communal eating (parts of the Middle-East, Africa & parts of East & Central Asia) where it's not unusual for people eat out of common plates/bowls of food, the rate of infection is no higher once corrected for other factors.
They're actually both hygiene points--which imo is generally not respected in the third-world. Hell, I've seen bare feet in hospital ICUs and mosquitos in patient rooms in those parts of the world. And when I confronted a doctor about it, he was simply smug about how our [western] immune systems can't cope with the 'bugs'. You're as good as dead in one of those hospitals if you're immune system is only used to the west.
#105
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I think it was UA, maybe a CDG-EWR flight. Woman next to me was wearing some sort of visor/mask combo that sort of looked like a welders mask (covered her whole face), but it was shiny silver cloth with a sort of tinted visor for the eyes. That was odd enough, then once she took her seat, she put a blanket over her head and remained like this (in her blanket fort) for the duration of the flight...at least she was quiet.