Too old to travel?
#62
Join Date: Feb 2005
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A bout of diverticulitis that landed my father in the hospital when he came out to visit me (I live about 500 miles away) is what caused my elderly parents to decide to stop traveling before they actually became too physically frail to do it safely. And I found I couldn't blame them; being hospitalized a long way from home has got to be frightening, and of course the older you get, the more likely that scenario is to happen. Who was I to demand my parents continue do something that was honestly beginning to scare them? So I decided to start traveling to see them instead. I'm just sorry I never got the chance to treat them to a few fantastic vacations before they decided to end their traveling days. But at least they got to enjoy an Alaska cruise before that happened.
#64
Join Date: Jul 2011
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I definitely reached an age where I am no longer willing to fly long-haul in economy, due to creaky bones and bad back. I agree that it is really a question of health. That said, I have older relatives who I don't think should travel far by themselves due to a variety of health and cognitive issues, but still do. They always seem to make it okay - they ask for a lot of help, and are very nice about it and seem to get it - but I am expecting at some point to get a call that they were found wandering around LHR or lost somewhere.
#65
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I can relate to that! Part of it is also a sense that you can't take it with you and the cost of better seats, if left to the kiddies rather than being used for our comfort, will not affect their lives in any important way. My wife and I have recently booked flights to Oz/back from NZ in business and to/from Japan in JAL's premium economy. (The BOS-NRT nonstop on a 787 is way better than any of the other options that might have been affordable in J.)
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#68
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better than airline lounges = VIP services at airports
some private terminals have bedrooms (for commercial flights)
never too old , physical condition relates more to how one travels, vs whether one travels
some private terminals have bedrooms (for commercial flights)
never too old , physical condition relates more to how one travels, vs whether one travels
#69
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Thank you ctporter, and others like you who have been willing to help when I need it. I'm not elderly but I do have multiple sclerosis, and seemingly at random I will sometimes have difficulty walking and will fall over. Despite the complaints of callous other travelers and endless airport problems, at least 2 or 3 other people always stop and help me if I need help.
I take fewer trips now but upgrade more often. Sometimes I use a wheelchair in the airport. I take small group tours and do not sign up for any with long walks. My husband is not elderly either but he had a bad stroke and is easily disoriented. He tends to stay home and take care of our pets while I travel. Or - we go on cruises - unpack once, stay in one room (cabin) and the ship does the traveling for us. Wouldn't have been our first choice, but we have done some great charter cruises and had fun!
I'll give up my airline tickets when someone grabs them from my cold, dead hands!
I take fewer trips now but upgrade more often. Sometimes I use a wheelchair in the airport. I take small group tours and do not sign up for any with long walks. My husband is not elderly either but he had a bad stroke and is easily disoriented. He tends to stay home and take care of our pets while I travel. Or - we go on cruises - unpack once, stay in one room (cabin) and the ship does the traveling for us. Wouldn't have been our first choice, but we have done some great charter cruises and had fun!
I'll give up my airline tickets when someone grabs them from my cold, dead hands!
#70
Join Date: Jun 2019
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I am getting older. Security lines, waiting to board, uncomfortable seats, long distance travel, changing connecting flights, unfriendly and super large airports, are all taking a toll on me.
How old is too old for travel? Have you seen any passengers who shouldn't be traveling (Other factors besides just being old)?
Example-many traditional Indians wouldn't eat anything in the plane and literally starve. My father who was a severe diabetic and practically blind didn't, wouldn't eat anything during his flight (this was 30 years back when flying was much easier). A four hour delay in connecting flight practically caused a major medical emergency. I am aware that many elderly people around the world practically decided not to travel anymore, even to see their children/grandchildren.
How is it now for ailing older people?
How old is too old for travel? Have you seen any passengers who shouldn't be traveling (Other factors besides just being old)?
Example-many traditional Indians wouldn't eat anything in the plane and literally starve. My father who was a severe diabetic and practically blind didn't, wouldn't eat anything during his flight (this was 30 years back when flying was much easier). A four hour delay in connecting flight practically caused a major medical emergency. I am aware that many elderly people around the world practically decided not to travel anymore, even to see their children/grandchildren.
How is it now for ailing older people?
#71
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I traveled the Hippie Trail in my 20's. I'm too old to do that anymore. I backpacked in Europe for six years, slept rough sometimes, never spent more than a couple of bucks on a room. My back aches just thinking about trying that now.
My experience is why I advise kids today to "take their retirement first", in their twenties. If you spend your twenties working and trade that off for traveling in your sixties, you've made a very poor trade. And if you get serious about work in your thirties, you'll have plenty of time to save up for luxury travel - soft beds, business class flights - in your sixties.
My experience is why I advise kids today to "take their retirement first", in their twenties. If you spend your twenties working and trade that off for traveling in your sixties, you've made a very poor trade. And if you get serious about work in your thirties, you'll have plenty of time to save up for luxury travel - soft beds, business class flights - in your sixties.
#72
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I traveled the Hippie Trail in my 20's. I'm too old to do that anymore. I backpacked in Europe for six years, slept rough sometimes, never spent more than a couple of bucks on a room. My back aches just thinking about trying that now.
My experience is why I advise kids today to "take their retirement first", in their twenties. If you spend your twenties working and trade that off for traveling in your sixties, you've made a very poor trade. And if you get serious about work in your thirties, you'll have plenty of time to save up for luxury travel - soft beds, business class flights - in your sixties.
My experience is why I advise kids today to "take their retirement first", in their twenties. If you spend your twenties working and trade that off for traveling in your sixties, you've made a very poor trade. And if you get serious about work in your thirties, you'll have plenty of time to save up for luxury travel - soft beds, business class flights - in your sixties.
Now, no longer in my 30s, I hope to have at least another 40 years of travel ahead of me! My parents are in their 60s and still travel by themselves all over the world.
Another bit of advice: Find a life companion that will share your love of travel
#73
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The younger to start, the better. But even though one can take the bargain route, having a steady income certainly helps. Most of you have grown up through the decades where FF programs have permitted less costly travel and the enjoyment of the finer aspects of flying (and hotel stays) through miles, points and elite benefits. A few of us did not have those benefits until the mid-1980s, but that's when one could fully appreciate further afield destinations that might not have been affordable otherwise. As to how old is too old, that's got to be an individual decision based on a few facts, primarily: health, initiative and financial security. Medical travel insurance plays a major factor for anyone over 65 (where more credit card medical coverage ends) and that's tied to your overall health, and prevalence of pre-existing conditions.
So yes, see as much as you can before you hit retirement (anywhere between 60 and 70 these days, maybe younger due to national laws), but when to stop is an unanswerable le question, other than when your mind or body prevent it. Travel should be a learning process and we should never stop learning, or admitting we have nothing more to learn. It's a route to understanding others in all corners of the planet.
I've passed into my 70s and while slowing down somewhat, I've not given up (COVID aside) on getting to a few more places before I stop. While I haven't been to every country, I've been to those I've wanted to get to, often many times over. I don't really have a travel Bucket List, so when a good deal comes up, or something's happening somewhat, I'll hop a plane and go there, either using miles, points or cash. Having at least one airline alliance and hotel lifetime elite status makes life a bit easier, as is keeping a top tier elite status in a second alliance. I suppose for me, it will be when I have to order a wheelchair, it'll be time to stop anything other than visiting friends and family.
So yes, see as much as you can before you hit retirement (anywhere between 60 and 70 these days, maybe younger due to national laws), but when to stop is an unanswerable le question, other than when your mind or body prevent it. Travel should be a learning process and we should never stop learning, or admitting we have nothing more to learn. It's a route to understanding others in all corners of the planet.
I've passed into my 70s and while slowing down somewhat, I've not given up (COVID aside) on getting to a few more places before I stop. While I haven't been to every country, I've been to those I've wanted to get to, often many times over. I don't really have a travel Bucket List, so when a good deal comes up, or something's happening somewhat, I'll hop a plane and go there, either using miles, points or cash. Having at least one airline alliance and hotel lifetime elite status makes life a bit easier, as is keeping a top tier elite status in a second alliance. I suppose for me, it will be when I have to order a wheelchair, it'll be time to stop anything other than visiting friends and family.
#74
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#75
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Thats what I would say too - so happy I spent the last 20 years of my 20s and 30s travelling - some of my best memories are from travelling in my early 20s, when bedtime was not even a term, and none of them involve pretentious luxury hotels (although thanks mainly to this site for the last 18 years - some even early on involved first class flying)
Now, no longer in my 30s, I hope to have at least another 40 years of travel ahead of me! My parents are in their 60s and still travel by themselves all over the world.
Another bit of advice: Find a life companion that will share your love of travel
Now, no longer in my 30s, I hope to have at least another 40 years of travel ahead of me! My parents are in their 60s and still travel by themselves all over the world.
Another bit of advice: Find a life companion that will share your love of travel
but also
But I did want to say that taking at least a 21 day trip with someone will give you a pretty good indication of how much time you want to spend together. Enough things will happen in that 3 weeks to know if it's right.