Seated next to a really overweight person - what to do?
#391
Join Date: May 2012
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I did a couple weeks ago. Sitting in aisle when POS sits in middle causing me to lean to the right. Plane was loaded...I stood up and told the FA I either wanted moved or rebooked. I wasn't going to fly 5 hours like that. FA sent me to GA...GA asked if I really wanted to rebook, I said yep. She found a window E+ seat for me.
#392
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It would be really interesting to know the policy each airline has (and if they have one) for dealing with a situation in which a customer brings to the attention of the FA that they are sat next to a POS who is encroaching on adjacent seats.
#393
Join Date: Sep 2013
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Problems usually happen when the underlying condition is not as extreme. These concern an increasing number of people which airlines do not want to alienate. Flyers have been consistently pushing for lower fares in exchange for less space (and service) on board for years. At the same time, most POS (still) think it's the airline's duty to provide an economy seat they can fit in. This is a politically charged topic the airlines would rather avoid, so they push the problem onto the adjacent passengers and take action only when they complain about it.
The one time I complained about this, the flight was full and the other passenger had to be offloaded. I did not even sit down before he was out of that middle seat. Although this is not representative and YMMV, I do think it is critical that people stand their ground in the face of encroaching POS.
*The definition of morbidly obese is certainly subjective and varies wildly from one side of the Atlantic to the other. When I say morbidly obese, this is what I have in mind.
#394
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I did a couple weeks ago. Sitting in aisle when POS sits in middle causing me to lean to the right. Plane was loaded...I stood up and told the FA I either wanted moved or rebooked. I wasn't going to fly 5 hours like that. FA sent me to GA...GA asked if I really wanted to rebook, I said yep. She found a window E+ seat for me.
The one time I complained about this, the flight was full and the other passenger had to be offloaded. I did not even sit down before he was out of that middle seat. Although this is not representative and YMMV, I do think it is critical that people stand their ground in the face of encroaching POS.
Should I be faced with this situation my intention is not to go voluntarily, agreeably or quietly.
#395
Join Date: Feb 2002
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All airlines have their customer-of-size (COS) policy on their web sites. AFAIK, they all require the COS to move, not the passenger who is seated next to them.
If the F/A or agent is not taking action to resolve the problem then request to speak to the Complaint Resolution Officer (CRO). The CRO is required to be available by DOT regulations and is specially trained in issues involving disabilities and accommodations.
If the F/A or agent is not taking action to resolve the problem then request to speak to the Complaint Resolution Officer (CRO). The CRO is required to be available by DOT regulations and is specially trained in issues involving disabilities and accommodations.
#397
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#398
Join Date: Dec 2014
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While I get what you mean by way of your photo description, the term is really objectively defined, though it is determined by BMI, which isn't always visually obvious (i.e. a person with a BMI of 33 might look fit and muscular, but still be "obese"; in fact, many Olympic and pro athletes are "overweight", if not "obese").
In the US and the UK, the CDC and NHS define "obese" as having a BMI of 30-39, so that means a person who is 5'6" would be obese at 185 lb or more, and a 6' person would be obese at 220 lb or more. The number for being "severely [morbidly] obese" is having a BMI of over 40 or being 100+ lb overweight. That means a 5'6" would be morbidly obese weighing 250 lb or more, and for a 6' person it would be 285 lb or more.
In the US and the UK, the CDC and NHS define "obese" as having a BMI of 30-39, so that means a person who is 5'6" would be obese at 185 lb or more, and a 6' person would be obese at 220 lb or more. The number for being "severely [morbidly] obese" is having a BMI of over 40 or being 100+ lb overweight. That means a 5'6" would be morbidly obese weighing 250 lb or more, and for a 6' person it would be 285 lb or more.
#399
Join Date: Jun 2010
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While I get what you mean by way of your photo description, the term is really objectively defined, though it is determined by BMI, which isn't always visually obvious (i.e. a person with a BMI of 33 might look fit and muscular, but still be "obese"; in fact, many Olympic and pro athletes are "overweight", if not "obese").
In the US and the UK, the CDC and NHS define "obese" as having a BMI of 30-39, so that means a person who is 5'6" would be obese at 185 lb or more, and a 6' person would be obese at 220 lb or more. The number for being "severely [morbidly] obese" is having a BMI of over 40 or being 100+ lb overweight. That means a 5'6" would be morbidly obese weighing 250 lb or more, and for a 6' person it would be 285 lb or more.
In the US and the UK, the CDC and NHS define "obese" as having a BMI of 30-39, so that means a person who is 5'6" would be obese at 185 lb or more, and a 6' person would be obese at 220 lb or more. The number for being "severely [morbidly] obese" is having a BMI of over 40 or being 100+ lb overweight. That means a 5'6" would be morbidly obese weighing 250 lb or more, and for a 6' person it would be 285 lb or more.
#403
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I have no specific knowledge of the regulation of non-US airlines. My comments are all with regard to US airlines.
#404
Join Date: Dec 2014
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Last year, Dr. Oz weighed him in at just over 235, if I recall......that puts him into the "obese" category, even if he hasn't gained since then (and if I was in his place, I'd certainly be stress-eating. Even looking at photos, he looks like he's gained.)
#405
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Moderator Note: We're veering off into Omni territory. It's unlikely that any of us will be seated next to Donald Trump as a COS. Please stay on topic.