The MET dress code
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Yes, theater is considered fine arts. What Broadway has become, thanks to Disney, dreadful revuesicals and an audience comprised primarily of casual-dressing tourists who treat a movie theater like their living room and a Broadway theater like a movie theater -- well, that's another question.
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Yes, theater is considered fine arts. What Broadway has become, thanks to Disney, dreadful revuesicals and an audience comprised primarily of casual-dressing tourists who treat a movie theater like their living room and a Broadway theater like a movie theater -- well, that's another question.
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In their defense, if the concessions sell the crap and the ushers let them in the theatre with it, they assume that it's all right.
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Yes, theater is considered fine arts. What Broadway has become, thanks to Disney, dreadful revuesicals and an audience comprised primarily of casual-dressing tourists who treat a movie theater like their living room and a Broadway theater like a movie theater -- well, that's another question.
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Probably because it's a gross differentiation from what has been traditionally expected by both the performers and the rest of the audience.
Jeans and t-shirt may be legal to wear in court but no lawyer with any sense would intentionally wear such attire for the same reason.
Jeans and t-shirt may be legal to wear in court but no lawyer with any sense would intentionally wear such attire for the same reason.
For some, casual dress implies comfort. The fact that it "implies casual behavior" is irrelevant. If someone actually behaves inappropriately, that's a different matter. But if someone behaves appropriately -- is courteous to and respectful of the other audience members and the performers -- I couldn't care less how they're dressed. Do we really need to expend so much energy worrying about how others choose to live and act when it doesn't really affect us?
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For some, casual dress implies comfort. The fact that it "implies casual behavior" is irrelevant. If someone actually behaves inappropriately, that's a different matter. But if someone behaves appropriately -- is courteous to and respectful of the other audience members and the performers -- I couldn't care less how they're dressed. Do we really need to expend so much energy worrying about how others choose to live and act when it doesn't really affect us?
Casual dress shouldn't matter anywhere. The fact is, however, that when it comes to professional theater (and opera and ballet) it serves as a reminder that you're in a theater and engaged in a two-way conversation with the performers, and not at home sitting on the sofa in your wondering, hollering at your wife to get you another beer.
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I agree that casual dress doesn't automatically mean casual behavior. I'm talking with respect to the performing arts and, particularly, Broadway theater. If you've lived in New York for any appreciable length of time and attend Broadway, you've seen the damage Disney (and a few others) have done to audience perceptions regarding behavior in the theater. That most certainly does affect not only audiences, but performers as well, thereby harming the medium itself. This should never have to happen, yet boorish tourists who think Broadway is the same thing as "It's a Small World" at Disneyworld, only minus the boats, are more and more common.
Casual dress shouldn't matter anywhere. The fact is, however, that when it comes to professional theater (and opera and ballet) it serves as a reminder that you're in a theater and engaged in a two-way conversation with the performers, and not at home sitting on the sofa in your wondering, hollering at your wife to get you another beer.
Casual dress shouldn't matter anywhere. The fact is, however, that when it comes to professional theater (and opera and ballet) it serves as a reminder that you're in a theater and engaged in a two-way conversation with the performers, and not at home sitting on the sofa in your wondering, hollering at your wife to get you another beer.
First, you certainly can't blame attire for the fact that the general public likes shlock and that for-profit companies produce the shlock that the general public wants to see.
Second, as much as I despise this crap being passed off as theater, we also need to resist the urge to be snobs. While many of us feel superior about our tastes, at the end of the day who are we to dictate tastes to others?
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Second, as much as I despise this crap being passed off as theater, we also need to resist the urge to be snobs. While many of us feel superior about our tastes, at the end of the day who are we to dictate tastes to others?
My conference call is starting. Perhaps more later.
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I think that's the easy way out. If you are upset, blame the people themselves. If they choose not to dress up, your issue is with them. Why not be upset with the annual productions of the Nutcracker then as the audience is primarily parents with their children. The audience is the same now is was when we were young. When we were little, we all dressed up. Today, parents don't dress up and thus their kids don't either. But you're not going to blame Balanchine or the NYCB.
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The fact, though, that social norms have changed, and that people don't get dressed up in situations where in the past they would have, is a separate issue. People used to get dressed up to travel. They don't anymore. I dress up when traveling on business, and don't otherwise. People used to get dressed up for theater. Many don't anymore. I often do; I sometimes don't. It's not so terrible.
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Why not be upset with the annual productions of the Nutcracker then as the audience is primarily parents with their children.
The audience is the same now is was when we were young.
When we were little, we all dressed up.
Today, parents don't dress up and thus their kids don't either. But you're not going to blame Balanchine or the NYCB.
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You're confusing two distinct issues. You clearly are heavily invested in the theater arts, and are not happy with how commercial theater has evolved. I get that.
The fact, though, that social norms have changed, and that people don't get dressed up in situations where in the past they would have, is a separate issue.
The fact, though, that social norms have changed, and that people don't get dressed up in situations where in the past they would have, is a separate issue.
People used to get dressed up to travel. They don't anymore. I dress up when traveling on business, and don't otherwise. People used to get dressed up for theater. Many don't anymore. I often do; I sometimes don't. It's not so terrible.
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If you think B'way is tourists wearing sweatshirts and jeans, then you're going to the wrong shows. Disney shows? Andrew Lloyd Webber shows? Anything else that has been playing for more than 5 years (Jersey, Mamma, Wicked, etc)? Yes, those are tourist shows.
But if you go see original theater (note: none of the above are plays, they are all musicals), you're going to be with 90%+ New Yorkers, and guess what? They are wearing sweatshirts and jeans. And as long as the phones are off, and the cough drops are unwrapped before the lights go down, who cares what your neighbor is wearing? Just like on planes, we don't dress up to fly, so why dress up to see a show?
But if you go see original theater (note: none of the above are plays, they are all musicals), you're going to be with 90%+ New Yorkers, and guess what? They are wearing sweatshirts and jeans. And as long as the phones are off, and the cough drops are unwrapped before the lights go down, who cares what your neighbor is wearing? Just like on planes, we don't dress up to fly, so why dress up to see a show?