Concierge Lounge Tipping Etiquette
Sep 20, 2011, 7:57 am
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Concierge Lounge Tipping Etiquette
Today while having breakfast I noticed a grumpy middle-aged man accosted a younger guy and virtually told him off for not leaving a tip. I wanted to see what the general consensus is regarding leaving tips in the lounge after breakfast.
Sep 20, 2011, 8:07 am
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He has no business doing that... I usually stay somewhere for a week at time and since it's usually the same CL agent in the AM shift or PM shift all week I'll leave a great tip at some point during the week. I wiiiiisssssssssssssssshhhhhhhhhhh he would accosted me.... I see these "grumpy middle-aged man" always walk around the CL like they own the place and treat the CL staff like dirt! BOOM!
Sep 20, 2011, 8:10 am
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Did they do anything tip worthy for you besides greet you? I usually make a breakfast plate of my own and get myself a coffee/OJ. If they serve you with refills then maybe.
Sep 20, 2011, 9:17 am
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There's been prior threads on this. Some people always tip in the C-Lounge. Some people tip when extra services are requested and provided. Some folks don't tip there. Any of these three would be well within the norm.
Sep 20, 2011, 10:32 am
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Lightening won't strike you dead if you don't tip, it's just classless.
Sep 20, 2011, 10:35 am
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I couldn't find the thread if it already exists. Mods pl merge if necessary
Sep 20, 2011, 11:12 am
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I agree with the lightening part, but disagree with the last.
While I may leave a dollar or 2 (if the attendant is actually doing something like filling my drinks, cleaning my table, providing dinner or activity recommendations, etc.), I don't think there is anything wrong/unethical/classless in not leaving a tip.
While I may leave a dollar or 2 (if the attendant is actually doing something like filling my drinks, cleaning my table, providing dinner or activity recommendations, etc.), I don't think there is anything wrong/unethical/classless in not leaving a tip.
Sep 20, 2011, 12:01 pm
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My typical interaction with the CL staff is limited to giving my name and room number when I enter. We exchange basic pleasantries. They clear my plate and glasses occasionally. Maybe I ask them to suggest a restaurant offsite. I don't see what's worth a tip in that. I presume that, unlike restaurant wait staff in the US, they are paid a reasonable salary for doing these basic duties of their jobs. Those who do tip: what services are you tipping for?
Sep 20, 2011, 1:14 pm
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Got mixed feelings about this one.
There are times where I've left a dollar or two on the table especially if there is no option to self serve "clean up" - but I've also hand carried plates into the kitchen because it just seems like the right thing to do.
But I also get the feeling that lounges are a "higher class" of service - nicer clothes, surroundings, informal like a club - and tipping like a waitress is almost seems insulting to them, especially a dollar or two at a time. Sort of like tipping in a planes First Class - doesn't seem right?
I've got some long term friendly relationships with several attendants in a few places and will ask their opinions - I want to do the "right" thing...
There are times where I've left a dollar or two on the table especially if there is no option to self serve "clean up" - but I've also hand carried plates into the kitchen because it just seems like the right thing to do.
But I also get the feeling that lounges are a "higher class" of service - nicer clothes, surroundings, informal like a club - and tipping like a waitress is almost seems insulting to them, especially a dollar or two at a time. Sort of like tipping in a planes First Class - doesn't seem right?
I've got some long term friendly relationships with several attendants in a few places and will ask their opinions - I want to do the "right" thing...
Sep 20, 2011, 1:19 pm
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The grumpy guy was out-of-line. Many people, including me, leave a tip at the end, not for each visit. As to tipping at all, there are people who are cheap and people who are generous. I tend to leave $3/day and round up to nearest $10.
Lightening won't strike you dead if you don't tip, it's just classless.
Lightening won't strike you dead if you don't tip, it's just classless.
Sep 20, 2011, 4:17 pm
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It is a personal decision to tip. The old grump should mind his own business. I tip when it is outside the normal service, but will wait and do it once. I dont get tipped on my job each day. They wait til the end of the year and decide.
I have seen this type that seem to stare you down when you are in the lounge. They want to take over, protect the food and probably count everything you take.
I have seen this type that seem to stare you down when you are in the lounge. They want to take over, protect the food and probably count everything you take.
Sep 20, 2011, 5:41 pm
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Same thoughts, Quite a few stays of mine are in China, where tipping is not needed, but i still leave the US $ or two. It's amazing how the attendants then remember you, & your room # on future visits. Sometimes i run out of $, and then just leave rmb on the last day.
Sep 20, 2011, 5:54 pm
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Tipping is a personal decision. The CL attendant is already paid well and would probably be grateful if you do tip but is not going to quibble about not receiving one. The grumpy-old dude was probably the father of the CL attendant.
Sep 20, 2011, 8:12 pm
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Remember that TIPS originally stood for Too Insure Prompt Service. Something to think about in this and any tipping discussion.
Sep 20, 2011, 8:50 pm
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I am in the "never tip" group.
All of my CL visits have been me fixing myself a plate, eating my food, and dropping off my dishes on a tray, or throwing them out if plastic.
I dont see why I would tip for this.
If I were accosted by an old man I would either a)Not even acknowledge him b)tell him to mind his own ****** business c)Tell him I dont tip people if they dont do anything for me. It would depend on my mood.
I like that it is a self serve/self clear environment. If the attendants were taking my plate as I finished I would likely leave a $1-2 tip.
All of my CL visits have been me fixing myself a plate, eating my food, and dropping off my dishes on a tray, or throwing them out if plastic.
I dont see why I would tip for this.
If I were accosted by an old man I would either a)Not even acknowledge him b)tell him to mind his own ****** business c)Tell him I dont tip people if they dont do anything for me. It would depend on my mood.
I like that it is a self serve/self clear environment. If the attendants were taking my plate as I finished I would likely leave a $1-2 tip.