The Best Gay Movie You've Ever Seen is...
 

20 Centimeters
Adam and Steve
Adonis Factor
Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert - 7
Aimee and Jaguar
Angels in America - 8
Another Country -3
Bad Education -2
Bagdad Café
Bear City
Beautiful Thing - 15
Bedrooms and Hallways
Before Night Falls - 3
Ben Hur - 2
Bent
Better than Chocolate
Between Love and Goodbye
Big Eden - 2
Birdcage - 2
Blow Job
Boy Culture -2
Boys in the Band
Breakfast with Scott
Bring It On - 3
Brokeback Mountain - 14
Broken Hearts Club - 2
Bubble
Burnt Money (Plata Quemada)
But I'm A Cheerleader
Chasing Amy
Chuck and Buck
Cinema Paradiso
Close to the second
Clueless -3
CMK10 - 3
Coffee Date 2
Come Undone (Presque Rien)
Coming Out
Cruising
Crush
Crying Game
Defying Gravity - 2
Do começo ao fim
Drôle de Félix
Eating Out - 2
Eating Out 2: Sloppy Seconds
Eternal Summer -2
Europa, Europa (German)
Far from Heaven - 4
Farewell My Concubine (霸王别姬)
Female Trouble
For a Lost Soldier (Voor Een Verloren Soldaat) -2
For the Bible told Me So
French Twist (Gazon Maudit)
Fried Green Tomatoes - 2
Fruit Machine
Gaudi Afternoon
Get Real - 3
Get Your Stuff
Gods and Monsters
Goldfish Memories -2
Ha-Buah (The Bubble)
Happy Together (Wong Kar Wai) (春光乍泄) - 5
Hedwig and the Angry Inch - 3
Heights
His Secret Life
I'm the One that I Want
I've Heard the Mermaids Singing
Imagine Me & You
In & Out - 2
Innocent
It's in the Water
It's My Party - 2
Jeffrey
Kids Are Alright - 4
L.I.E.
La Cage aux Folles (French) - 4
Lan Yu (蓝宇)
Latter Days - 9
Law of Desire -2
Le Placard (The Closet)
Living End - 2
Lola & Billy the Kid
Longtime Companion -2
Lost Language of Cranes
Love! Valour! Compassion!
Loving Annabelle
Lust in the Dust
Ma Vie en Rose
Main Event
Making Love - 2
Making the Boys [in the Band]
Mambo Italiano
Maurice - 5
Mean Girls
Milk - 4
Mostly Unfabulous Social Life of Ethan Green
Moulin Rouge - 3
My Beautiful Launderette – 5
My Forgotten Soldier (Dutch)
Mysterious Skin -2
Naked Civil Servant.
Okoge (おこげ)
Opposite of Sex
Out of Season
Paris is Burning - 2
Parting Glances - 3
Patrik 1,5 - 3
Picklehorse - 2
Pink Flamingos
Polyester
Presque Rien
Priest
Querelle
Quicker Than The Ticker
Ritz - 3
River (Tsai Ming-Liang)
Rocky Horror Picture Show
Role Play
Romy and Michelle's High School Reunion
Saturn in Opposition (Saturno Contro) - 2
Sebastiane
Shelter - 4
Shortbus
Show Me
Single Man - 2
So far, Ciao (2008).
Sommersturm (German)
Sordid Lives - 4
Sting
Stonewall
Strictly Ballroom
Sum of Us - 5
Synthetic
Talented Mr Ripley
Testosterone
Those Who Love Me Can Take the Train (Patrice Chereau)
To Wong Foo Thanks for Everything Julie Newmar
Tongues Untied
Top Gun
Torch Song Trilogy - 5
Touch of Pink (British) - 2
Transamerica - 3
Trick - 7
Trip
Troop Beverly Hills
Tropical Malady (Apichatpong Weerasethakul)
Truth or Dare
Two Seconds
Un chant d'amour (Jean Genet)
Unconditional Love
Under One Roof
V for Vendetta
Valley of the Dolls
Vegas in Space
Victim - 2
Walk On
Walk on Water
Watercolors
Wedding Banquet - 4
Were the World Mine
Where Love Has Gone
Wild Reeds (Les Roseaux Sauvages) -2
Women
Yossi and Jagger - 3

Clueless

or Bring it on. Hmm. I'm conflicted now. :D

Top Gun

I like KenCT's choices.

But I have seen quite a few good gay films-let me do my research
Parting Glances is one of the top of my head.
Priscilla Queen Of the Desert.
The Original(french)La Cage Aux Folles.
The Naked Civil Servant.

While not"gay"my top two Fave films do have a "bent"sensability-Cinema Paradiso and Strictly Ballroom

"Two Seconds," about a bike racer (with a dash of lesbian love) in Montreal. Boy movies get repetitive, since they all seem to have the same plot.

Oh yes, "Parting Glances!"
 

I just love that movie - it also turned me on to Brahms (the opening piano quartet).

My favourite movie with a lesbian theme - "I've Heard the Mermaids Singing". (also w/ great music from Delibe's "Lakme" and a bit of Beethoven)

And - just because it was the first movie with a gay theme I ever saw and it pushed me to come out to myself (down in CCS at that - I watched it 5 times and each time in a different theater to make sure I wouldn't be 'recognized' - usually half the audience walked out making gagging sounds halfway through) - "Making Love". And no, it's not that good but at the time - it was what there was - so it has a place in my heart - and so will Harry Hamlin.

Also - "The Wedding Banquet".

Alec

Toss up between HBO Angels In America and Brokeback Mountain.

I loved "Trick" in cutesy sort of way. It's a simple, sweet, funny film, nothing too challenging.

1st gay movie I saw... "Beautiful Thing". Great soundtrack, too!

"Priscilla, Queen of the Desert" for sheer camp fun
"Beautiful Thing" as the tenderest coming-out story.
"Shortbus" for a different take on the whole queer thing.

Latter Days

"Jeffrey" was great.. where else can I see a gay Patrick Stewart??

I agree with several above. Also enjoyed My Beautiful Launderette. Perhaps because it came out around the same time I did. A former college roommate and I were coincidentally coming out at about the same time as well - had both been closeted as roommates. Both in grad school and we saw it while I was visiting him at MIT. Some 20+ years later and still good memories. Except for making me feel really old all of a sudden....

I have had the chance to see many a gay movie over the years... especially when I was on the Board of the Rochester Gay and Lebian Film Festival.... :)

Two of my favorites... which have been on Logo again the past few months were mentioned above... "Trick" and "Beautiful Thing".

Does Fried Green Tomatoes count? If not, prob The Opposite of Sex. :D