Club Completely Empty but Upgrade Refused
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#32
Join Date: Nov 2004
Programs: BA GGL, TK Elite
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The UK psychology about asking for something is fascinating, and mostly revolves around balancing two divergent aspects: (1) the embarrassment potential of a possible refusal, against (2) someone else getting something you don't. Hence the thinly veiled hostility even to the idea of asking for an upgrade: in doing so the asker is normalizing the requests to the point where in order to avoid missing out it becomes necessary to risk embarrassing refusal oneself.
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#33
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So when checking in to a hotel, you would never inquire about the possibility of a nicer room? I always do and have had some decent success. My motto is it doesn't hurt to ask...the worst that can happen is they say no. I always ask nicely or even jokingly. I have also asked at shows....I was recently moved to a better seat at a Vegas cirque show because I asked. I am sure that wouldn't have happened if I didn't politely ask. Also restaurants. It has nothing to do with respect.
#34
Join Date: May 2014
Posts: 6,290
This thread reminds me of when I used to handle departures to obvious honeymoon places.
Half of Economy had a special message on the lines of “passenger on honeymoon pls consider upgrade”. At the gate there’d be a procession of newly-wed husbands trying to score an upgrade. Some would go the chummy way, some would attempt the pity way, some would refer to the cousin of their hairdresser’s football mate who had a sister who worked in BA, some (almost always with a chevaliere on the pinky) would go the “do you know how much money I move through BA?” way.
And. it. never. happened.
mainly because the powers of a gate agent are next to inexistent, mainly because the upgrade function is fully automated, but the truth is that “free doesn’t exist” and if you want something, well, you got to pay for it.
Half of Economy had a special message on the lines of “passenger on honeymoon pls consider upgrade”. At the gate there’d be a procession of newly-wed husbands trying to score an upgrade. Some would go the chummy way, some would attempt the pity way, some would refer to the cousin of their hairdresser’s football mate who had a sister who worked in BA, some (almost always with a chevaliere on the pinky) would go the “do you know how much money I move through BA?” way.
And. it. never. happened.
mainly because the powers of a gate agent are next to inexistent, mainly because the upgrade function is fully automated, but the truth is that “free doesn’t exist” and if you want something, well, you got to pay for it.
#35
Join Date: Aug 2019
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On those occasions that I get to speak to check-in staff, I've been known to ask, in a conversational sort of why, "any upgrades on offer today?" - usually the answer is an apologetic "No", occasionally you get offered a price (sometimes worth taking, usually not)... once I got moved from Y to J (skipping W) for free :-)
But as others have observed, if you don't ask, the answer is No.
#36
formerly fdemoulin
Join Date: Jun 2010
Location: UK
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So when checking in to a hotel, you would never inquire about the possibility of a nicer room? I always do and have had some decent success. My motto is it doesn't hurt to ask...the worst that can happen is they say no. I always ask nicely or even jokingly. I have also asked at shows....I was recently moved to a better seat at a Vegas cirque show because I asked. I am sure that wouldn't have happened if I didn't politely ask. Also restaurants. It has nothing to do with respect.
#37
Join Date: Oct 2012
Location: Kent, UK
Programs: M&S Elite+
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This is a key observation...
On those occasions that I get to speak to check-in staff, I've been known to ask, in a conversational sort of why, "any upgrades on offer today?" - usually the answer is an apologetic "No", occasionally you get offered a price (sometimes worth taking, usually not)... once I got moved from Y to J (skipping W) for free :-)
But as others have observed, if you don't ask, the answer is No.
On those occasions that I get to speak to check-in staff, I've been known to ask, in a conversational sort of why, "any upgrades on offer today?" - usually the answer is an apologetic "No", occasionally you get offered a price (sometimes worth taking, usually not)... once I got moved from Y to J (skipping W) for free :-)
But as others have observed, if you don't ask, the answer is No.

#39
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So when checking in to a hotel, you would never inquire about the possibility of a nicer room? I always do and have had some decent success. My motto is it doesn't hurt to ask...the worst that can happen is they say no. I always ask nicely or even jokingly. I have also asked at shows....I was recently moved to a better seat at a Vegas cirque show because I asked. I am sure that wouldn't have happened if I didn't politely ask. Also restaurants. It has nothing to do with respect.
When I was a CSD and boarding customers probably around 10% of customers would ask for an upgrade and in the days when you could pay for upgrades onboard I told my crew not to assume that they wanted a free upgrade and to say yes if asked, when I had a moment I would inform them how much it cost, well you can guess what happened?
#40
Join Date: Jul 2019
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However I have in the past been offered upgrades on outbound TATL flights from LHR. It happened on a route i flew frequently and as a solo traveller on a Saturday from WT+ to Club.
#41
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It would have been interesting if you had offered to pay for an upgrade. It's possible that you might have been told that you could upgrade, but there would be no catering for you - an aspect of the flight being planned to operate without any passengers in Club. Of course, it's also possible that if you had actually started to pursue that route, you might you have been told pretty quickly that you couldn't upgrade even for payment.
Comair has its own issues at the moment, and I wouldn't be surprised if some of the effects are not publicly obvious.
Comair has its own issues at the moment, and I wouldn't be surprised if some of the effects are not publicly obvious.
#42
Join Date: Aug 2017
Posts: 246
I have no issue about the upgrade being refused and want to make it clear this isn't a post to moan about them saying no. But it got me thinking more broadly about upgrade policies, when they are given for free etc. Given Club was completely empty it seemed odd they didn't entertain it but thought maybe Comair only upgrade for certain status passengers?
Also, there's the crew requirements, too. If there's no-one (or hardly anyone) booked into business, the crew can be allocated elsewhere. If you get upgraded - for free - and almost the only person in business, then this requires crew to be on standby and much more. There's a cost for this.
Please think things through.
#43
Join Date: Apr 2014
Location: Kazakhstan
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No status (is Blue a status?) & to this day I still think the rep had a word after we had checked in.
#44
Join Date: Aug 2013
Location: London
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#45
Original Poster
Join Date: Jul 2020
Programs: BA Bronze
Posts: 57
I was once told that the crew does not load the flight with business class food and drinks.....just in case people are upgraded (for free). It's all done with as careful pre-planning as possible. Please don't think there's business class food and drink going to waste as there's no-one booked into business.
Also, there's the crew requirements, too. If there's no-one (or hardly anyone) booked into business, the crew can be allocated elsewhere. If you get upgraded - for free - and almost the only person in business, then this requires crew to be on standby and much more. There's a cost for this.
Please think things through.
Also, there's the crew requirements, too. If there's no-one (or hardly anyone) booked into business, the crew can be allocated elsewhere. If you get upgraded - for free - and almost the only person in business, then this requires crew to be on standby and much more. There's a cost for this.
Please think things through.
