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Old Jul 1, 2018, 12:19 pm
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BA emails and grammar

I have received the following various forms of salutation in BA or BAEC emails:

Dear Steve
Dear Steve Takeiteasy
Dear Mr Takiteasy
Hi Steve Takiteasy

I am not the top of the class when grammar is concerned but feel #2 and 4 are incorrect? Seems quite poor from a British company.

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Old Jul 1, 2018, 12:34 pm
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Old Jul 1, 2018, 12:42 pm
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The fourth example strikes me as illogical, but it does not seem to me to breach any rules of grammar. The second one is interesting - many Quakers (and others) would tend to use the second form to avoid the use of titles, along with the Mrs/Ms/Miss. minefield. That would in any case be deemed a potential breach of etiquette rather than grammar. Potential, since it would depend on whether the recipient would deem it to lack courtesy. I once wrote a letter of complaint to the then editor of The Independent, using the form "Dear Andrew Marr", and he replied personally, by return and using the same style of salutation - which I remember more than the content of his reply!
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Old Jul 1, 2018, 4:36 pm
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Old Jul 1, 2018, 6:16 pm
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Originally Posted by Takiteasy
..I am not the top of the class when grammar is concerned but feel # 2 and 4 are incorrect? Seems quite poor from a British company.
BA is a Spanish company
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Old Jul 1, 2018, 10:41 pm
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Originally Posted by Takiteasy

Dear Steve
Dear Steve Takeiteasy
Dear Mr Takiteasy
Hi Steve Takiteasy

I am not the top of the class when grammar is concerned but feel #2 and 4 are incorrect? Seems quite poor from a British company.

Grammar doesn't come into it. But convention, comity, courtesy and just plain good manners do.

The third form is the correct way to address a stranger, though the second one is increasingly used to get round gender uncertainty.
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Old Jul 1, 2018, 10:49 pm
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This has never thing to do with grammar. I think you are referring to forms of address. It would be good if we could just stick to Dear Mr Surname...
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Old Jul 2, 2018, 12:32 am
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It would be good if we could just stick to Dear Mr Surname...
That assumes the writer knows the gender of the recipient. That may be unknown to the writer, not obvious, or apparently obvious and wrong. As an example I was recently introduced to "Danny", who was female. I would have (wrongly) assumed that was a contraction of Daniel and thus male.
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Old Jul 2, 2018, 12:35 am
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Originally Posted by IAN-UK

Grammar doesn't come into it. But convention, comity, courtesy and just plain good manners do.

The third form is the correct way to address a stranger, though the second one is increasingly used to get round gender uncertainty.
Assuming emails come as a result of having a BAEC account or BA flight, surely they already know one's title (Mr, Mrs, Dr, Your Excellency etc) from the information one gave them, irrespective of what gender one identifies as.
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Old Jul 2, 2018, 12:42 am
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Originally Posted by ChampagneSocialist
Assuming emails come as a result of having a BAEC account or BA flight, surely they already know one's title (Mr, Mrs, Dr, Your Excellency etc) from the information one gave them, irrespective of what gender one identifies as.
In the good old days of BAEC, when digital dropdowns were yet to be conceived, the paper form allowed you to write in your own choice of title into a blank field. I wrote in Comrade and for many years I got communications so entitled as Cde CWS.
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Originally Posted by corporate-wage-slave
In the good old days of BAEC, when digital dropdowns were yet to be conceived, the paper form allowed you to write in your own choice of title into a blank field. I wrote in Comrade and for many years I got communications so entitled as Cde CWS.
Another 4 years (or less) and you might do again...
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Old Jul 2, 2018, 1:04 am
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Originally Posted by ChampagneSocialist
Assuming emails come as a result of having a BAEC account or BA flight, surely they already know one's title (Mr, Mrs, Dr, Your Excellency etc) from the information one gave them, irrespective of what gender one identifies as.
You might be expecting just a bit too much from BA and its IT system....
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Old Jul 2, 2018, 1:30 am
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Originally Posted by Worcester

Originally Posted by corporate-wage-slave
In the good old days of BAEC, when digital dropdowns were yet to be conceived, the paper form allowed you to write in your own choice of title into a blank field. I wrote in Comrade and for many years I got communications so entitled as Cde CWS.
Another 4 years (or less) and you might do again...
In the longer perspective, one could face being addressed as Tavaritj
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Old Jul 2, 2018, 1:38 am
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Maybe it's a bit poncy of me, but I feel like I'd rather be called by my first name (or full name without title) than being called Mr. instead of Dr. I mean, what's the benefit of the 4 years I've spent doing a PhD if not being able to put it in front of my name!
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