Against the rules to give up your FC seat?
#1
Original Poster
Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: MSP/DFW
Programs: Priority Club PLT, Marriott Titanium, AA EXP
Posts: 480
Against the rules to give up your FC seat?
So....Is it really against the rules to give up your FC seat? Has it always been? If not, when did this become the rule? This is a pretty crazy story that involves the CEO of Borden Dairy, Tony Sarsam, (which did 1.2 billion in revenue last year) giving his first class seat to one of his employees, which it sounds like he frequently does. An hour or so into the flight, the FA discovers that the (female) employee seated in the seat is not Mr. Sarsam, she apparently berates the woman and kick her back to coach. Sarsam even tries to intervene, but the FA (and apparently the captain) are adamant that she must return to coach because it is a security issue. Sounds like the FA was less than pleasant about the entire ordeal, and the CEO is back her 100%, even saying that the employee is understating how poorly she/they were treated. Here are some screenshots of the communication the woman sent to AA, along with the generic reply. That reply is hard to read, but AA says the FA was correct.
Then the CEO also sent a message to Doug Parker, and of course, also received the same rubber-stamped type of response, with just a bit more sugar on top since he is EP. Here is his email and response, as well. Since when it it not ok to give your FC seat to someone? Many of us have given to a spouse or significant other, and may others to a military person. In both scenarios, many of us have been applauded my FAs for doing so. I just did this is Dec and the FA gave me extra snack boxes in Y for being a goof husband.
You can also follow the story on the lady's twitter feed.
The screenshots are from a FB group where she also posted the story.




Then the CEO also sent a message to Doug Parker, and of course, also received the same rubber-stamped type of response, with just a bit more sugar on top since he is EP. Here is his email and response, as well. Since when it it not ok to give your FC seat to someone? Many of us have given to a spouse or significant other, and may others to a military person. In both scenarios, many of us have been applauded my FAs for doing so. I just did this is Dec and the FA gave me extra snack boxes in Y for being a goof husband.
You can also follow the story on the lady's twitter feed.





#2
A FlyerTalk Posting Legend
Join Date: Jan 2002
Posts: 44,113
When you buy a ticket for a flight in a particular class, that is what you are buying ; there is no entitlement to swap around passengers between classes of service
If the person had asked in advance whether it would be ok to swap , the attendant would either have said yes or no - if asked in advance, the attendant's response might have been different or may have still have said no
Either way, it would have avoided the situation that the passenger created
If the person had asked in advance whether it would be ok to swap , the attendant would either have said yes or no - if asked in advance, the attendant's response might have been different or may have still have said no
Either way, it would have avoided the situation that the passenger created
#3
FlyerTalk Evangelist
Join Date: May 2004
Location: DFW/DAL
Programs: AA Lifetime PLT, AS MVPG, HH Diamond, NCL Platinum Plus, MSC Diamond
Posts: 21,417
When you buy a ticket for a flight in a particular class, that is what you are buying ; there is no entitlement to swap around passengers between classes of service
If the person had asked in advance whether it would be ok to swap , the attendant would either have said yes or no - if asked in advance, the attendant's response might have been different or may have still have said no
Either way, it would have avoided the situation that the passenger created
If the person had asked in advance whether it would be ok to swap , the attendant would either have said yes or no - if asked in advance, the attendant's response might have been different or may have still have said no
Either way, it would have avoided the situation that the passenger created
#4
A FlyerTalk Posting Legend
Join Date: Jan 2002
Posts: 44,113
#5
Join Date: Nov 2014
Posts: 254
I doubt AA has a written policy anywhere (and certainly not a customer-available one) that says people can just happily swap seats across cabins for the heck of it. Do people do it and get away with it? Yes. However, just because something is often done without intervention, does not make it Company policy...anywhere.
Having said all that, as a regular AA complainer, I was appalled that no miles were proactively awarded by anyone in Customer Relations for the rude behavior.
Having said all that, as a regular AA complainer, I was appalled that no miles were proactively awarded by anyone in Customer Relations for the rude behavior.
#6
Moderator: British Airways Executive Club, Iberia Airlines, Airport Lounges and Environmentally Friendly Travel
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: London, UK
Posts: 22,038
#7
Join Date: Mar 2010
Programs: AA EXP, AA LT Gold, SPG Plat 75
Posts: 887
So where is the line drawn here? Can I offer my seat to my wife? Or will she be sent back to coach while I am forced into J or F?
I have swapped seats numerous times when I was in F. Sometimes to sit with a coworker in Y, sometimes because I am traveling with family and only one upgrade cleared so of course I didn't make my wife site in Y. It is my assigned seat, and from my perspective if I want to swap with someone that is my prerogative, as long as the swappee agrees to swap. AA dropped the ball here, period. There is no security concern if I switch from 1A to 4F, why is there a security concern if I swap from 4F to 8D?
I have swapped seats numerous times when I was in F. Sometimes to sit with a coworker in Y, sometimes because I am traveling with family and only one upgrade cleared so of course I didn't make my wife site in Y. It is my assigned seat, and from my perspective if I want to swap with someone that is my prerogative, as long as the swappee agrees to swap. AA dropped the ball here, period. There is no security concern if I switch from 1A to 4F, why is there a security concern if I swap from 4F to 8D?
#9
FlyerTalk Evangelist
Join Date: Aug 2012
Location: KHOU/KIAH
Programs: AA EXP | Marriott Bonvoy Titanium| Hyatt Globalist
Posts: 10,634
So where is the line drawn here? Can I offer my seat to my wife? Or will she be sent back to coach while I am forced into J or F?
I have swapped seats numerous times when I was in F. Sometimes to sit with a coworker in Y, sometimes because I am traveling with family and only one upgrade cleared so of course I didn't make my wife site in Y. It is my assigned seat, and from my perspective if I want to swap with someone that is my prerogative, as long as the swappee agrees to swap. AA dropped the ball here, period. There is no security concern if I switch from 1A to 4F, why is there a security concern if I swap from 4F to 8D?
I have swapped seats numerous times when I was in F. Sometimes to sit with a coworker in Y, sometimes because I am traveling with family and only one upgrade cleared so of course I didn't make my wife site in Y. It is my assigned seat, and from my perspective if I want to swap with someone that is my prerogative, as long as the swappee agrees to swap. AA dropped the ball here, period. There is no security concern if I switch from 1A to 4F, why is there a security concern if I swap from 4F to 8D?
Last edited by JY1024; Feb 13, 20 at 2:36 pm Reason: merged consecutive posts
#10
A FlyerTalk Posting Legend
Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: Minneapolis: DL DM charter 2.3MM
Programs: A3*Gold, SPG Plat, HyattDiamond, MarriottPP, LHW exAccess, ICI, Raffles Amb, NW PE MM, TWA Gold MM
Posts: 100,112
I hope the CEO of Borden Dairy escalates this all the way to the CEO of AA as he was instructed to do by that FA. After all, even after this flight is over, he should always follow the FA's orders as they are only here for our safety. <sarcasm>
BTW, he did say that permission was given for the seat swap, so why did the FA (and captain, if indeed the captain was really consulted) revoke the permission in the middle of the flight. It must have been horribly disruptive and upsetting to other FC passengers on the flight. Hopefully some of them will complain too about the FA's behavior.
BTW, he did say that permission was given for the seat swap, so why did the FA (and captain, if indeed the captain was really consulted) revoke the permission in the middle of the flight. It must have been horribly disruptive and upsetting to other FC passengers on the flight. Hopefully some of them will complain too about the FA's behavior.
#11
FlyerTalk Evangelist
Join Date: Feb 2001
Location: RDU <|> MMX
Programs: AA EXP 2MM, SK EBS
Posts: 11,685
Just Friday night I cleared the last upgrade on MIA-RDU, flying with GF so there's no way in hell I'm sitting in F while she's in Y, told the FA we were swapping as we boarded and the FA even said something along the lines of "aww that's sweet, I love it when that happens."
This story has all the meat to get some legs, good natured CEO gives up F seat for employee in Y that just had surgery, FA flips out and AA's abysmal customer service response.
This story has all the meat to get some legs, good natured CEO gives up F seat for employee in Y that just had surgery, FA flips out and AA's abysmal customer service response.
#13
A FlyerTalk Posting Legend
Join Date: Jan 2002
Posts: 44,113
From reading 1st post, it sounds like the response from AA supported the FA's position
If the person had asked the FA responsible for the 1st class cabin if it was ok and that same attendant was the one that had the issue later, that sounds very bizarre
Where does it say that the travel is for you or anyone that you feel like letting use it instead? to best of my knowledge tickets are non transferable without a name change being made
If the person had asked the FA responsible for the 1st class cabin if it was ok and that same attendant was the one that had the issue later, that sounds very bizarre
Where does it say that the travel is for you or anyone that you feel like letting use it instead? to best of my knowledge tickets are non transferable without a name change being made
#14
Join Date: Mar 2010
Programs: AA EXP, AA LT Gold, SPG Plat 75
Posts: 887
From reading 1st post, it sounds like the response from AA supported the FA's position
If the person had asked the FA responsible for the 1st class cabin if it was ok and that same attendant was the one that had the issue later, that sounds very bizarre
Where does it say that the travel is for you or anyone that you feel like letting use it instead? to best of my knowledge tickets are non transferable without a name change being made
If the person had asked the FA responsible for the 1st class cabin if it was ok and that same attendant was the one that had the issue later, that sounds very bizarre
Where does it say that the travel is for you or anyone that you feel like letting use it instead? to best of my knowledge tickets are non transferable without a name change being made
I would bet that you have swapped seats at some point in your life, so I'm not quite sure why this is a hill you seem determined to die on.
#15
Join Date: Jul 2018
Location: SE Wisconsin
Programs: AA EXP, Hilton Diamond
Posts: 331
Well... this solves the issues brought up in the other threads surrounding seat swaps. Sorry, no, I cannot change seats to allow this mother to sit next to her child. Its a matter of safety.