AA FAs tell doctor her clothing is offensive, must cover self with blanket
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I stay away from the passengers title simply because Dr. Dao from United's fiasco a few years back was unlicensed after his practice credentials were revoked. It has nothing to do with his treatment by the Chicago Aviation PD but paraded all over the article by who knows who?
BTW - Dr Phil isn't a licensed Dr. He qualified if he passed education requirements but he can't practice legally so it is all relative and insignificant as my Ph.D friends are also Dr.
BTW - Dr Phil isn't a licensed Dr. He qualified if he passed education requirements but he can't practice legally so it is all relative and insignificant as my Ph.D friends are also Dr.
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Also I never said what she was wearing was offensive.
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There was nothing wrong with her outfit. I fly several times a month and have been with AA since the merger and I routinely see clothing choices that are extreme in lounges and on planes that pass the “appropriate” test.
And this woman is not a POS and the fat shaming here is 1000 times more offensive than her outfit.
And this woman is not a POS and the fat shaming here is 1000 times more offensive than her outfit.
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I remember an event where there was a clothing issue on an airline and the pictures taken by the passenger did not seem to match the other pictures taken of that passenger.
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Listen, I like a little fun and levity in the threads as much as anybody. But the repeated focus on the Victim - (and make no mistake, she was clearly a VICTIM of an American Airlines Flight Attendant on a power-trip) - specifically the continuing demeaning jokes of her body size and type - instead of on the behavior of the Flight Attendant - is misplaced.
Granted, it'll likely never be publicly disclosed what if any steps AA takes specifically in regard to the Flight Attendant(s?) in this case. We've all seen what people wear on vacation flights, as evidenced by the posts here. It's hard for me to fathom this action was somehow a well meaning - albeit wrong - professional judgement call by the FA. She clearly had a chip on her shoulder about something, an ax to grind, or simply woke up on the wrong side of the bed and wanted to lord her power over someone she thought she could pick on when they boarded the flight, demean, and puff herself up a bit an inflate her own self-importance. I actually think the FA wanted this poor woman to feel terrible, cry, and beg. Very disquieting a FA has this type of power and would be allowed to exercise it unilaterally and without impunity.
AA needs to address this with more than the refunded flight and an apology of sorts from an airline rep. The traveling public needs to be assured they won't be subjected to random abuse and humiliation by Flight Attendants. Or worry some random thing about them won't set a FA off and they could be denied boarding on their flights.
AA reads these threads. If the overwhelming response from posters is to joke about the "fat lady", instead of the FAs behavior and tolerance there of, why should AA take the incident more seriously?
Granted, it'll likely never be publicly disclosed what if any steps AA takes specifically in regard to the Flight Attendant(s?) in this case. We've all seen what people wear on vacation flights, as evidenced by the posts here. It's hard for me to fathom this action was somehow a well meaning - albeit wrong - professional judgement call by the FA. She clearly had a chip on her shoulder about something, an ax to grind, or simply woke up on the wrong side of the bed and wanted to lord her power over someone she thought she could pick on when they boarded the flight, demean, and puff herself up a bit an inflate her own self-importance. I actually think the FA wanted this poor woman to feel terrible, cry, and beg. Very disquieting a FA has this type of power and would be allowed to exercise it unilaterally and without impunity.
AA needs to address this with more than the refunded flight and an apology of sorts from an airline rep. The traveling public needs to be assured they won't be subjected to random abuse and humiliation by Flight Attendants. Or worry some random thing about them won't set a FA off and they could be denied boarding on their flights.
AA reads these threads. If the overwhelming response from posters is to joke about the "fat lady", instead of the FAs behavior and tolerance there of, why should AA take the incident more seriously?
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We don't have footage of how she wore it when she was getting on the plane. We have photos of what she said she wore.
I remember an event where there was a clothing issue on an airline and the pictures taken by the passenger did not seem to match the other pictures taken of that passenger.
I remember an event where there was a clothing issue on an airline and the pictures taken by the passenger did not seem to match the other pictures taken of that passenger.
Great parenting, demonstrating to your offspring the proper way to handle a situation like this. ^
Do you really think she boarded with her breasts and buttocks exposed? Seriously?
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Listen, I like a little fun and levity in the threads as much as anybody. But the repeated focus on the Victim - (and make no mistake, she was clearly a VICTIM of an American Airlines Flight Attendant on a power-trip) - specifically the continuing demeaning jokes of her body size and type - instead of on the behavior of the Flight Attendant - is misplaced.
Granted, it'll likely never be publicly disclosed what if any steps AA takes specifically in regard to the Flight Attendant(s?) in this case. We've all seen what people wear on vacation flights, as evidenced by the posts here. It's hard for me to fathom this action was somehow a well meaning - albeit wrong - professional judgement call by the FA. She clearly had a chip on her shoulder about something, an ax to grind, or simply woke up on the wrong side of the bed and wanted to lord her power over someone she thought she could pick on when they boarded the flight, demean, and puff herself up a bit an inflate her own self-importance. I actually think the FA wanted this poor woman to feel terrible, cry, and beg. Very disquieting a FA has this type of power and would be allowed to exercise it unilaterally and without impunity.
AA needs to address this with more than the refunded flight and an apology of sorts from an airline rep. The traveling public needs to be assured they won't be subjected to random abuse and humiliation by Flight Attendants. Or worry some random thing about them won't set a FA off and they could be denied boarding on their flights.
AA reads these threads. If the overwhelming response from posters is to joke about the "fat lady", instead of the FAs behavior and tolerance there of, why should AA take the incident more seriously?
Granted, it'll likely never be publicly disclosed what if any steps AA takes specifically in regard to the Flight Attendant(s?) in this case. We've all seen what people wear on vacation flights, as evidenced by the posts here. It's hard for me to fathom this action was somehow a well meaning - albeit wrong - professional judgement call by the FA. She clearly had a chip on her shoulder about something, an ax to grind, or simply woke up on the wrong side of the bed and wanted to lord her power over someone she thought she could pick on when they boarded the flight, demean, and puff herself up a bit an inflate her own self-importance. I actually think the FA wanted this poor woman to feel terrible, cry, and beg. Very disquieting a FA has this type of power and would be allowed to exercise it unilaterally and without impunity.
AA needs to address this with more than the refunded flight and an apology of sorts from an airline rep. The traveling public needs to be assured they won't be subjected to random abuse and humiliation by Flight Attendants. Or worry some random thing about them won't set a FA off and they could be denied boarding on their flights.
AA reads these threads. If the overwhelming response from posters is to joke about the "fat lady", instead of the FAs behavior and tolerance there of, why should AA take the incident more seriously?
That being said, I'm on a flight heading to the Midwest. There are a lot of scantily clad folks of all races and sizes with lots of tattoos on this flight so they didn't get the message. There's no one here in F/J wearing a suit but some normal shorts and t-shirts in the back wouldn't hurt anyone.
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I suspect AA heard from more than just the pax and the FA, and the fact that her ticket was refunded so quickly suggests to me that they know their FA was wrong. Furthermore, I think their investigation confirmed the pax's account that she was polite throughout, even when the FA was clearly trying to provoke her - otherwise AA would have taken the position that the pax's clothing was borderline but her attitude got her kicked off.
Sometimes it is easier for AA (or any airline) to issue a refund or give you a few miles than going through a (pointless) investigation.
Mine tells me that, no, she probably did not board with her breasts exposed. But I think it is possible that her breasts popped out a few times.
This is just a one sided story and some AA PR actions.
We'll never know what really happened.
Only that she took this picture after landing.
Offtopic: That MIA restroom looks gross. Happy to avoid MIA anytime
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There was a time when people dressed for air travel the way they currently (generally) dress for dining at a 4-star restaurant. Of course, the planes and service were very different in coach back then.
Now the coach experience is more akin to McDonald's Drive-Thru and sometimes the service doesn't even rise to that level. Hardly surprising if people dress accordingly.
Now the coach experience is more akin to McDonald's Drive-Thru and sometimes the service doesn't even rise to that level. Hardly surprising if people dress accordingly.
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Wow. Pretty outrageous episode on behalf of AA. Passenger gets a lot of credit for speaking out. Need to shine a light on these discriminatory practices.
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There was a time when people dressed for air travel the way they currently (generally) dress for dining at a 4-star restaurant. Of course, the planes and service were very different in coach back then.
Now the coach experience is more akin to McDonald's Drive-Thru and sometimes the service doesn't even rise to that level. Hardly surprising if people dress accordingly.
Now the coach experience is more akin to McDonald's Drive-Thru and sometimes the service doesn't even rise to that level. Hardly surprising if people dress accordingly.
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AA needs to address this with more than the refunded flight and an apology of sorts from an airline rep. The traveling public needs to be assured they won't be subjected to random abuse and humiliation by Flight Attendants. Or worry some random thing about them won't set a FA off and they could be denied boarding on their flights.