Seat swapping etiquette on AA (etiquette discussion)
#1
Seat swapping etiquette on AA (etiquette discussion)
I recently did a LAX-JFK in business, in seat 6D.
At boarding, two men in 6A and 6F identified themselves as being together and were rather unhappy that I refused to swap with either as I stated I would far rather an aisle seat.
Was I being unreasonable?
At boarding, two men in 6A and 6F identified themselves as being together and were rather unhappy that I refused to swap with either as I stated I would far rather an aisle seat.
Was I being unreasonable?
#2
Join Date: Oct 2005
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No not at all. If it was for another isle seat a row or two back or oppisite sides then I for sure would. The seat being offered needs to be of the same or greater percieved value. Me and the Mrs almost never get seats in First together and have to do the swap thing. But for example if we both have a window then I do not even ask for a swap.
#3
Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: Washington DC USA
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There are a couple threads over in TravelBuzz about seat swapping for your amusement
Seat Swap Request Horror Stories
How do you handle someone sitting in your seat when you board?
Would you switch a good seat for a worse seat?
Seat Swap Request Horror Stories
How do you handle someone sitting in your seat when you board?
Would you switch a good seat for a worse seat?
#4
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I don't think you're in the wrong. I would not give up my aisle seat for a window.....there's a reason why I picked my seat. I've seen some pretty obnoxious couples who got upgraded at the gate and expect others to move their seats to accommodate them.
#5
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I am with you. I choose an aisle for a reason.
#6
Join Date: Jan 2010
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You have a right to the seat you reserved/paid. I have moved in F before to accomodate a couple. Feels good to help someone out. But, I have also declined when I felt the move wasn't a fair trade. Example, was once asked by a couple to move to 1E on a domestic 757 from my row 3 aisle. Sorry, I politely declined explaining that 1E had restricted legroom because of the bulkhead. I didn't feel a bit of guilt in doing so in that instance.
In Y now I always book a MCE or Pseat. So, any expectation that one would move from those specifically selected extra fee seats is easily defended.
In Y now I always book a MCE or Pseat. So, any expectation that one would move from those specifically selected extra fee seats is easily defended.
#7
Join Date: Jul 2009
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It's perfectly OK for someone to ask if you will switch.
It's perfectly OK to switch if you want.
Or not.
It's perfectly OK to switch if you want.
Or not.
#8
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Perfectly within your right. I'm the opposite, i'm a window person and would have to decline if the person had an aisle seat.
#9
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Nope. Nothing wrong with asking and nothing wrong with saying yes or no as you choose.
I pick my seats for my own comfort and there's a reason I'm in the seat I'm in.
I pick my seats for my own comfort and there's a reason I'm in the seat I'm in.
#10
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Not that difficult to wait until after boarding to park yourself. If this tool had done that, maybe I would have accommodated him.
#11
Join Date: May 2001
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There are other pax in the row that they may trade with.
When I decline to trade, I always suggest trading with their other neighbor.
When I decline to trade, I always suggest trading with their other neighbor.
#12
Join Date: Feb 2013
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There is only one proper response, which is to ask him to name his price. Then go from there.
#13
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I agree with the others - nothing wrong with the person asking and nothing wrong with you declining.
Just last month, I declined a woman asking me to swap seats with her daughter. Daughter was in a middle seat. I had an aisle.
Overall, I'm more than happy to accommodate a move request but I'm not a small guy and I choose aisle seats for a reason. Offer me a comparable seat or better and I'll happily exchange with you.
Like the time I flew a PDX-IAH hop with my GF. She had an aisle seat in E+ and I had the upgrade to a window first. I asked the guy on the aisle next to her if we could swap. Told him it wasn't an aisle seat but it was a F seat and he happily switched.
Just last month, I declined a woman asking me to swap seats with her daughter. Daughter was in a middle seat. I had an aisle.
Overall, I'm more than happy to accommodate a move request but I'm not a small guy and I choose aisle seats for a reason. Offer me a comparable seat or better and I'll happily exchange with you.
Like the time I flew a PDX-IAH hop with my GF. She had an aisle seat in E+ and I had the upgrade to a window first. I asked the guy on the aisle next to her if we could swap. Told him it wasn't an aisle seat but it was a F seat and he happily switched.
#14
Join Date: Jun 2000
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To me it's same for same - so if an aisle passenger asks me to change and I am in an aisle sure. Otherwise, no. I have been separated from my traveling companion in the past and couldn't do a fair trade so I didn't even ask.
#15
Join Date: Oct 2014
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Similar thing happened to me this weekend. The flight attendant knew the guy in 6B and his friend in 6E (both in middle seats). She tried to get 6A to switch with 6E. Awkward! He said no and everyone understood, but I thought it was odd of the flight attendant to do this for her friends. Granted, we were on our way to Vegas so everyone was in good moods, but still. This is one reason I always put my headphones in as soon as I am on the plane (if not before). Discourage people from trying to talk to me...
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