Wow, thanks for helpful response. And for pointing out the sarcasm (twice). Otherwise I wouldn't have gotten it. And thanks for the advice. It may be the single least useful piece of information I've gotten from these boards. Life is an adventure? Ok but I missed my meeting. Maybe my client has enjoyed the adventure of me not being there on time.(Should I point out that I am being sarcastic here? Or do you get it?)

"Sucking it in" and "going with the flow",
Charles