I appreciate everyone's comments.
No, I
don't suspect them of using drugs. I ran across the article, and seemed to zero in on meth abuse in the gay subculture. And, yeah, I fully appreciate the arguments of
chaunceysf, which is why we went out of our way to avoid that kind of crap when the kids were growing up. But their house is usually full of their friends when we visit, and I can be terribly naive when it comes to stuff like this.
Originally Posted by chauceysf
If you raised your son to the best of your ability, you should know his opinion of drugs. Go to SFO, give him love, understanding and respect for who he is and include his partner as you would a daughter-in-law if things had been different.
Let me tell you about his "coming out":
We were all at an outdoor art festival --
My Son : "Mom?"
Mom : "Yeah, babe?"
MS : "Uh ... I'm gay."
M : "I know, honey."
MS : "You do? ....... Well, what about dad?"
M : "He's the one who told me."
Ms : "Huh? When did he find out?"
M : "I think he knew before you did."
MS : "Oh. ......... Now what do I do?"
We don't have any problems in the love and understanding department.