just returned from thrivandrum kerala and agree with the post above me, nowadays grind works in the most rural places as well but be aware, indians cheat you because of lack of privacy. india is a wonderful country and a time gap between middle age and apple @ bro's , many indians tent to have same sex because of the cultural issues when it come to women and pre marriage sex, so lower your expactations and sharp your senses when moving around its flirting everywhere...