Im not the no show.....
And yes it is a breakup. After countless times ignoring & forgiving & trying to move on, I can’t continue in a relationship with an alcoholic. And as fate would have it, the latest meltdown comes less than a week before a €6k holiday to New Orleans. Can’t see the insurance company accepting “break up due to alcoholism” as a reason for a refund though so contemplating going myself or just writing it off.