They really are. I've been to that T2 one multiple times, I just didn't clue in there was no shower. I've been to ONE other one at SIN that was decent. It does make me pine for the Business class one I went to at SIN, much nicer. It wasn't the T2, so I guess it was T3. Also the SQ lounge at KUL is ok, certainly better than the TG one across the hall which sucked.
But as always thanks for the advice gang.