Without meaning to sound preachy or what-have-you, might I suggest people remember these are screamingly good deals.
So, if you:
- don't get to spend as much time in the lounge (or, any),
- don't get all the caviar,
- don't get the hand-written note,
- do get down-graded to J,
- etc, etc, etc,
while not ideal, you still got a great deal!
Just some food for thought ...