Originally Posted by
nallison
Ok no more assumptions, I'll be clear what I mean. I think if you refuse a crew request to lower your shade out of consideration for others, yes that is arrogant and fairly DYKWIA. Maybe you don't do that, though then I'm not sure why we're debating if actually you go along with something you have said you don't need to go along with?
You said this already and I suggested that we have been told by the cc that they have to go through the motions of asking if another passenger asks - but you are perfectly ok in saying no. I am still unsure why you see this as DYKWIA behaviour though.