The bedding mess up doesn't seem as bad to me as some of the other presumptuous stuff that goes on at hotels and can be rather insulting at that. You want presumptuous, then you should see what happens at some hotels when some couples -- more so "interracial" couples -- return to their hotel rooms late at night in typical night-on-the-town party wear. Hotel staff/security falsely flagging down the fellow guests as prostitutes or snuck-in guests exceeding room occupancy? Now that is a problem.