I think there's a bit of a mismatch here between aspiration and reality. I would be the first to agree that clubs should be quiet, exclusive, and even children-free in the evening (although I actually have no problem with children who behave appropriately). The mismatch is in expecting that atmosphere at an IC. These hotels are upper-middle range at best, and are aiming to please a wide range of travellers. The sort of exclusivity we crave doesn't come at this price level. My company doesn't pay for more exclusive hotels, whereas I sometimes do privately. I like the ICs I frequent, and am usually in the club for no extra cost. I can put up with the odd noisy child, especially at breakfast.