IMO without a doubt go with the Ritz-Carlton.
http://www.ritz-carlton.com/resorts/kapalua
Make sure when you make the Reservation at ALL of your hotels on your trip tell them you are on your Honeymoon. You might get your Suite when you arrive without having to use the points, but if you want a confirmed suite in advance you might want to think about using your points.
Also welcome to flyertalk!!
[This message has been edited by I LOVE EWR (edited 02-07-2003).]