I also had the oatmeal on a recent JFK-MXP flight and it was a major step up from the cold cereal. While it's hard to see in your photo, there is a little cup of brown sugar (in the shadow of the coffee cup) that was a delightful condiment. I had the tilapia (pre-selected and eventually confirmed by an FA who did not figure it out at first) that was quite decent as well.