Originally Posted by
aacharya
You could've given him the RPU, as the odds were better that you'd clear CPU before he did. Now you can only ask at check-in at the airport versus possible upgrades in advance.
That's how I do it...When traveling with a colleague of lesser or no status, I just say upfront, "I'm upgrading you for YOUR benefit, I could just be a jerk and upgrade myself with no regard for you, so if I don't clear, we'll just swap seats".
Yet to hear an objection from anyone on this. (And have cleared them (me) about 60% of the time).