Because I can't stand the thought of submitting to either one, I'm not flying. It would take an awful lot to make me break my boycott.
But it does seem to me that there is at least potential, in getting the grope, to claim power in the situation. You're making someone touch you all over who probably really doesn't want to, and you can make some carefully chosen statements that can make them regret their employment decisions.
It's really kind of a Gandhi approach. Peacefully and passively force them to publicly demonstrate their worst behavior so that they look bad.