Thank you for the welcome to FT. It's much appreciated, especially as I felt slightly lewd given initial replies. I mentioned that she had her hands by her side as I had guessed if she had honestly wanted to try the dish she would have helped herself. I offered as such with my hands. But no, she leaned forward like asking to be spoon-fed.
As mentioned, I'm sorry for the other connotation - it wasn't intended. I believe my question was legitimate. Has anyone else had a FA (after invitation) sample either their food or wine in front of them?