Do you also use "product" on your hair? I've found that using a very tiny amount of
Plastique on the ends of my hair and then using a medium-sized round brush works really, really well in turning an outie flip into an innie flip.
In fact, there are times when I just use this stuff and then curl the ends of my hair with my fingertips as it dries and it stays curled under very nicely without being heavy or sticky. They key is using a very, very small amount of it; I use about an aspirin-sized drop on my finger and work it through my hair.
I put a small amount of Plastique into a tiny travel bottle in my kippie bag.
Makes me miss long hair, too. Short hair (I also have a bob-style) is so high maintenance.