Heartfelt Thanks to United
#31
Join Date: Aug 2005
Location: Our nation's capital
Programs: UA 1K & 0.6 MM
Posts: 781
Dear fly2me,
I am so sorry for your loss. You clearly dearly loved your life's partner. How great that the you two of you continued to travel, doing something you both loved, in spite of her illness.
That United staff went out of their way to treat her as a queen, as you say, and allow you to forge special memories during that time comes as no surprise to me. Some months ago, there was a thread that asked people "Why United?" Many of the stories contained a personal connection, one that was maintained over the long haul, usually due to the actions of a few UA staff.
In the end, the only thing that matters during our time on this earth is the connections we make with other people, and in particular, the deep love that we forge with our families. How fortunate you have been to experience such a deep, abiding love. I cannot imagine your pain right now. I hope that, over time, it will lose its rawness.
Thank you for reminding us so eloquently about what really matters.
With best wishes,
big V
I am so sorry for your loss. You clearly dearly loved your life's partner. How great that the you two of you continued to travel, doing something you both loved, in spite of her illness.
That United staff went out of their way to treat her as a queen, as you say, and allow you to forge special memories during that time comes as no surprise to me. Some months ago, there was a thread that asked people "Why United?" Many of the stories contained a personal connection, one that was maintained over the long haul, usually due to the actions of a few UA staff.
In the end, the only thing that matters during our time on this earth is the connections we make with other people, and in particular, the deep love that we forge with our families. How fortunate you have been to experience such a deep, abiding love. I cannot imagine your pain right now. I hope that, over time, it will lose its rawness.
Thank you for reminding us so eloquently about what really matters.
With best wishes,
big V
#32
Join Date: Feb 2016
Location: EZE
Programs: UA Gold,Delta Gold Bonvoy Titanium Elite, HH Diamond , AA Platinum, EENational, Hyatt Globalist
Posts: 1,542
I read this last night and have not been able to stop thinking about this. Firstly sorry for your loss. Secondly it's stories like these that remind us that their is a human side in travel. We are more than just a paid seat and it's demonstrated clearly in this case. I am a relatively new Flyertalker but love the sense of community and support on this site and especially in the United forum. I can't imagine the pain your going through but I am sure over time with the support of your family,friends,and flyertalk community it will help you get through it. Thank you for sharing this personal story and cheers to United for going above and beyond.
#33
Join Date: Jul 2011
Location: In between IAD and DCA
Programs: UA Plat 1.1MM , Marriott Gold Elite, Hyatt Discoverist
Posts: 2,262
I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family and friends during this extremely difficult time. Thank you for sharing this story. It is good to see that UA treated you and your wife with the upmost respect and understanding.
Again, I am very sorry for your loss.
Again, I am very sorry for your loss.
#34
Join Date: Oct 2009
Programs: UA 1K, Hilton ♦ , Hyatt Carbonado, Wyndham ♦, Marriott PE, "Stinking Bum" elsewhere.
Posts: 4,950
I wish to extend my sincere thanks to United and the 1K staff that recently helped me through an extremely difficult period in my life. My wife was diagnosed with cancer on November 24 and succumbed to the disease on April 20. She was 54.
The early prognosis was hopeful, so we rescheduled a few of our six upcoming trips for later in the year and canceled others that would have interfered with her treatment. Throughout the process, the UA personnel with whom I dealt were the epitome of kindness and understanding. They rescheduled the two trips we decided were doable, and even re-routed us on a direct AC flight when inclement Chicago weather would have resulted in a series of misconnected UA flights. Any and all change fees were proactively waived.
Unfortunately, upon returning from our last trip, my wife's condition suddenly deteriorated, and she passed away 16 days later. Still reeling from shock, dealing with superfluous travel issues was furthest from my list of priorities. Last week I got around to dealing with refund requests for the remaining flights that would not be flown. Again the UA staff were solicitous and respectful. Truthfully, I was not confident those tickets that were non-refundable P and W fares would actually be refunded. However, true to what I had been told, all tickets were refunded without fees, only a few days later. At this point, the money is really irrelevant, but the fact that UA showed such empathy and compassion will stay with me forever. Thank you, UA and Mr. Munoz for bringing a sliver of light to what has been a very dark period in my life.
The early prognosis was hopeful, so we rescheduled a few of our six upcoming trips for later in the year and canceled others that would have interfered with her treatment. Throughout the process, the UA personnel with whom I dealt were the epitome of kindness and understanding. They rescheduled the two trips we decided were doable, and even re-routed us on a direct AC flight when inclement Chicago weather would have resulted in a series of misconnected UA flights. Any and all change fees were proactively waived.
Unfortunately, upon returning from our last trip, my wife's condition suddenly deteriorated, and she passed away 16 days later. Still reeling from shock, dealing with superfluous travel issues was furthest from my list of priorities. Last week I got around to dealing with refund requests for the remaining flights that would not be flown. Again the UA staff were solicitous and respectful. Truthfully, I was not confident those tickets that were non-refundable P and W fares would actually be refunded. However, true to what I had been told, all tickets were refunded without fees, only a few days later. At this point, the money is really irrelevant, but the fact that UA showed such empathy and compassion will stay with me forever. Thank you, UA and Mr. Munoz for bringing a sliver of light to what has been a very dark period in my life.
Peace to you, brother.
#35
Join Date: Sep 2010
Location: Arizona
Programs: AA EXP, UA 1k, DL Platinum, B6 Mosaic
Posts: 47
A heartfelt thanks to you for sharing your difficult (but beautiful) story. I'm literally teary eyed, and can't even imagine what you most be going through.
Thank you for your courage in sharing, and may her memory always be a blessing.
Know that you have plenty of support here at flyertalk, and you can pm me anytime if you just want to chat.
Thank you for your courage in sharing, and may her memory always be a blessing.
Know that you have plenty of support here at flyertalk, and you can pm me anytime if you just want to chat.
I am overwhelmed by the outpouring of warmth, especially as I have not been an active member of the FT community for a very, very long time. My wife and I shared a wonderful life together for 36 years. We were each other's best friend. She was so happy that we had taken that last trip, to Berlin and Prague. It created her last fond memories and a sense of normalcy.
She maintained the most positive outlook, up until the very end, even smiling for her Oncology ID photo.
She maintained the most positive outlook, up until the very end, even smiling for her Oncology ID photo.
#40
Join Date: Oct 2010
Location: Los Angeles, CA, USA
Programs: United, Delta, AA, southwest
Posts: 150
I wish to extend my sincere thanks to United and the 1K staff that recently helped me through an extremely difficult period in my life. My wife was diagnosed with cancer on November 24 and succumbed to the disease on April 20. She was 54.
The early prognosis was hopeful, so we rescheduled a few of our six upcoming trips for later in the year and canceled others that would have interfered with her treatment. Throughout the process, the UA personnel with whom I dealt were the epitome of kindness and understanding. They rescheduled the two trips we decided were doable, and even re-routed us on a direct AC flight when inclement Chicago weather would have resulted in a series of misconnected UA flights. Any and all change fees were proactively waived.
Unfortunately, upon returning from our last trip, my wife's condition suddenly deteriorated, and she passed away 16 days later. Still reeling from shock, dealing with superfluous travel issues was furthest from my list of priorities. Last week I got around to dealing with refund requests for the remaining flights that would not be flown. Again the UA staff were solicitous and respectful. Truthfully, I was not confident those tickets that were non-refundable P and W fares would actually be refunded. However, true to what I had been told, all tickets were refunded without fees, only a few days later. At this point, the money is really irrelevant, but the fact that UA showed such empathy and compassion will stay with me forever. Thank you, UA and Mr. Munoz for bringing a sliver of light to what has been a very dark period in my life.
The early prognosis was hopeful, so we rescheduled a few of our six upcoming trips for later in the year and canceled others that would have interfered with her treatment. Throughout the process, the UA personnel with whom I dealt were the epitome of kindness and understanding. They rescheduled the two trips we decided were doable, and even re-routed us on a direct AC flight when inclement Chicago weather would have resulted in a series of misconnected UA flights. Any and all change fees were proactively waived.
Unfortunately, upon returning from our last trip, my wife's condition suddenly deteriorated, and she passed away 16 days later. Still reeling from shock, dealing with superfluous travel issues was furthest from my list of priorities. Last week I got around to dealing with refund requests for the remaining flights that would not be flown. Again the UA staff were solicitous and respectful. Truthfully, I was not confident those tickets that were non-refundable P and W fares would actually be refunded. However, true to what I had been told, all tickets were refunded without fees, only a few days later. At this point, the money is really irrelevant, but the fact that UA showed such empathy and compassion will stay with me forever. Thank you, UA and Mr. Munoz for bringing a sliver of light to what has been a very dark period in my life.
Stay strong, things will get better.
Regards from someone who understands.
Tapeguy
#41
Original Poster
Join Date: Apr 1999
Location: Montral, Canada
Posts: 1,610
Touched
Thank you all for the very warm and compassionate words. Reading through the posts and messages, I find it difficult to contain my emotions. The kindness of the FT community is truly inspirational in helping me overcome the weight of the grief I am currently carrying. I am thankful to you all.
Happier times....
Happier times....
#43
Join Date: Jul 2015
Location: Pacific
Programs: UA GS, Lifetime 4 MM, BA Gold, , Marriott Lifetime Titanium Elite, Marriott Ambassador Elite
Posts: 476
I am so sorry for your loss. May your 36 years of partnership sustain you in times of darkness.
Like others on this thread, I too experienced great kindness from United. I was in London when a family member passed away. United waived fees and I kept my upgrade.
Like others on this thread, I too experienced great kindness from United. I was in London when a family member passed away. United waived fees and I kept my upgrade.
#45
Join Date: Jul 2007
Posts: 94
I wish to extend my sincere thanks to United and the 1K staff that recently helped me through an extremely difficult period in my life. My wife was diagnosed with cancer on November 24 and succumbed to the disease on April 20. She was 54.
The early prognosis was hopeful, so we rescheduled a few of our six upcoming trips for later in the year and canceled others that would have interfered with her treatment. Throughout the process, the UA personnel with whom I dealt were the epitome of kindness and understanding. They rescheduled the two trips we decided were doable, and even re-routed us on a direct AC flight when inclement Chicago weather would have resulted in a series of misconnected UA flights. Any and all change fees were proactively waived.
Unfortunately, upon returning from our last trip, my wife's condition suddenly deteriorated, and she passed away 16 days later. Still reeling from shock, dealing with superfluous travel issues was furthest from my list of priorities. Last week I got around to dealing with refund requests for the remaining flights that would not be flown. Again the UA staff were solicitous and respectful. Truthfully, I was not confident those tickets that were non-refundable P and W fares would actually be refunded. However, true to what I had been told, all tickets were refunded without fees, only a few days later. At this point, the money is really irrelevant, but the fact that UA showed such empathy and compassion will stay with me forever. Thank you, UA and Mr. Munoz for bringing a sliver of light to what has been a very dark period in my life.
The early prognosis was hopeful, so we rescheduled a few of our six upcoming trips for later in the year and canceled others that would have interfered with her treatment. Throughout the process, the UA personnel with whom I dealt were the epitome of kindness and understanding. They rescheduled the two trips we decided were doable, and even re-routed us on a direct AC flight when inclement Chicago weather would have resulted in a series of misconnected UA flights. Any and all change fees were proactively waived.
Unfortunately, upon returning from our last trip, my wife's condition suddenly deteriorated, and she passed away 16 days later. Still reeling from shock, dealing with superfluous travel issues was furthest from my list of priorities. Last week I got around to dealing with refund requests for the remaining flights that would not be flown. Again the UA staff were solicitous and respectful. Truthfully, I was not confident those tickets that were non-refundable P and W fares would actually be refunded. However, true to what I had been told, all tickets were refunded without fees, only a few days later. At this point, the money is really irrelevant, but the fact that UA showed such empathy and compassion will stay with me forever. Thank you, UA and Mr. Munoz for bringing a sliver of light to what has been a very dark period in my life.