elite status and a sense of entitlement
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If you want some related information, here is my self-victimization thread LOL:
Why are there more TR's in F and J than in Y?
Why are there more TR's in F and J than in Y?
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Sometimes (a lot of times) it associates with expression [inappropriate text edited by Moderator]- i.e. people who buy things they do not need, on money they do not have, to impress people they do not like.
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I buy Business and First class for myself and my wife because I can afford it and the comfort it worth the cost to me. Other people may not have the same priorities. I *don't* do it to impress those who make other choices.
Suggest that some people who believe that we are trying to impress you review their own motivations.
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I see a whole lot of examples in this thread that fall neatly into the "sour grapes" category.
I buy Business and First class for myself and my wife because I can afford it and the comfort it worth the cost to me. Other people may not have the same priorities. I *don't* do it to impress those who make other choices.
Suggest that some people who believe that we are trying to impress you review their own motivations.
I buy Business and First class for myself and my wife because I can afford it and the comfort it worth the cost to me. Other people may not have the same priorities. I *don't* do it to impress those who make other choices.
Suggest that some people who believe that we are trying to impress you review their own motivations.
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The ironic thing is that the (few) people I know who are truly wealthy actually don't drive flashy cars. If anything, they're likely to downplay their net worth. Many of the people I know who are somewhere in the upper middle class continuum, but not out-and-out F.U. rich, drive flashy cars to give the appearance of greater wealth than they actually have.
Airline status associates with importance.
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As for status, it's meh. I've never been op-uped despite having status so you are at the end of the day in an economy seat with is still uncomfortable or you are in a business seat which is comfortable and somebody has paid for. I don't rate airline lounges unless you are the sort of person who likes to chow down at one of those all-you-can-eat buffets with low quality food.
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The article this morning on the UA flight diverted because two passengers got in a fight over recline (in E+!) reminded me once again why I work hard to avoid sitting in E. [Note to self: log on to ua.com and upgrade all upcoming flights.]
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Thinking the OP must have a hilarious time laghing at all the serious answers his not-so-serious post generates. Or maybe s/he is just annoyed at something
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http://www.cnn.com/2014/08/26/travel...der/index.html
Only thing that could have possibly made this story better would be if a COS and an unaccompanied minor were involved. That would be Flyertalk Platinum.
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Whereas if I spend money or miles on comfy airline seats for my wife and me, I don't want my friends or family to know. It's an inherently private reward.
I don't think I'll ever be a BMW guy. I like them a lot but whenever I spot one my reptile brain can't help whispering: idiot.
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The ironic thing is that the (few) people I know who are truly wealthy actually don't drive flashy cars. If anything, they're likely to downplay their net worth. Many of the people I know who are somewhere in the upper middle class continuum, but not out-and-out F.U. rich, drive flashy cars to give the appearance of greater wealth than they actually have.
I fell into the trap of driving the "right" car. I was young and stupid though. I got older and wiser and realized that the only people who are impressed by what I drive....I don't really value their opinion in the first place.
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I look at it this way: *I* don't personally feel like I look down on anyone else, but I definitely think the airlines themselves do - and actively demonstrate it at every possible customer touchpoint.
And over time, by firmly establishing that culture and expectation that infrequent travelers are to be treated purposely badly at all times, I'm not surprised that some elite travelers start to think that way (even subconsciously) as well.
To me, this aspect has almost nothing to do with the quality of the respective hard products in Y, J, or F. It's all about how airline employees treat people every day, and how other people see and react to that treatment.
And over time, by firmly establishing that culture and expectation that infrequent travelers are to be treated purposely badly at all times, I'm not surprised that some elite travelers start to think that way (even subconsciously) as well.
To me, this aspect has almost nothing to do with the quality of the respective hard products in Y, J, or F. It's all about how airline employees treat people every day, and how other people see and react to that treatment.
It does make financial sense for the airlines to treat certain people poorly, in hopes they'd spend more money. Though in a lot of other industries you treat people well in hopes they would come back.
I think Singapore Changi airport does it well. They have nice lounges. But they also have sleeping areas inside the airport for the people who don't have nice lounge. There should be a minimum level of respect/courtesy, regardless of what class you are flying or whether you have status.
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On the UA flight they announced that if someone wants to upgrade to a bigger economy plus seat that is unoccupied to talk to a flight attendant.
It does make financial sense for the airlines to treat certain people poorly, in hopes they'd spend more money. Though in a lot of other industries you treat people well in hopes they would come back.
It does make financial sense for the airlines to treat certain people poorly, in hopes they'd spend more money. Though in a lot of other industries you treat people well in hopes they would come back.
My problem is how airlines intentionally make the customer service and other elements of the soft product disrespectful and as bad as possible with the that it will encourage people to reach elite status. At the time an airline is forcing you to wait in a queue they aren't even trying to upsell their "elite for a day" product: they're just trying to make you mad and, I guess in some weird way, want to use their product more to get to the next level.
I guess I would be fundamentally concerned if a company's business strategy was to treat people with such great disrespect that they are willing to pay to be slightly-less-disrespected. But if the entire airline cartel is doing it together (as cartels usually do), I guess it works. What are we going to do, not fly? This is life under the fist of the system the DoJ has given us.