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Old Jan 12, 2011, 9:32 pm
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Do you tip front desk female escorts?

At some nice hotels, particularly in Asia, the front desk girl will check you in and then show you to your room. The bags are brought up at the same time (or later) by the bellman. I always tips the bellman who brings up the bags, even in countries where tipping is not particularly common.

My question is: Am I supposed to tip the nicely dressed front desk girl who escorts me to the room? So far, I haven't. She really hasn't done anything other than walk me to the room. OK, sometimes she'll point out the minibar. I don't know if she expects a tip, or if she would turn her nose up at a tip.

I feel weird about handing nicely dressed Asian women money in my hotel room. I also feel weird about handing the bellman money in front of her but stiffing her.

Please advise.
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Old Jan 12, 2011, 9:47 pm
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Old Jan 12, 2011, 9:47 pm
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I thought this was going to be another "beef" thread.
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Old Jan 12, 2011, 10:32 pm
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Why the focus on female escorts? At most Asian hotels I've been to, the front desk is staffed by both males and females.
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Old Jan 13, 2011, 12:25 am
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Old Jan 13, 2011, 12:27 am
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well, it's totally depends on my mind. I mean what I'm feeling at that time.
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Old Jan 13, 2011, 12:29 am
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Originally Posted by jphripjah
My question is: Am I supposed to tip the nicely dressed front desk girl who escorts me to the room? So far, I haven't. She really hasn't done anything other than walk me to the room. OK, sometimes she'll point out the minibar. I don't know if she expects a tip, or if she would turn her nose up at a tip.
Unless they do something extra special, I normally don't tip them.
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Old Jan 13, 2011, 2:15 am
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Originally Posted by jphripjah
At some nice hotels, particularly in Asia, the front desk girl will check you in and then show you to your room. The bags are brought up at the same time (or later) by the bellman. I always tips the bellman who brings up the bags, even in countries where tipping is not particularly common.

My question is: Am I supposed to tip the nicely dressed front desk girl who escorts me to the room? So far, I haven't. She really hasn't done anything other than walk me to the room. OK, sometimes she'll point out the minibar. I don't know if she expects a tip, or if she would turn her nose up at a tip.

I feel weird about handing nicely dressed Asian women money in my hotel room. I also feel weird about handing the bellman money in front of her but stiffing her.

Please advise.
No

And please stop tipping the bellman in countries where tipping is not the norm

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Old Jan 13, 2011, 2:16 am
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Related question: if you ask the concierge for a double-entendre, do you tip when they give you one?
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Old Jan 13, 2011, 2:18 am
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No, unless she helps me with my bags and other things
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Old Jan 13, 2011, 2:57 am
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And please stop tipping the bellman in countries where tipping is not the norm

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I entirely agree. Most Asian hotels also add a 10% service to the entire bill. By tipping on top of a service charge, you are just making it impossible for the rest of us who do not come from a culture of tipping for everything.

It used to be that some Hotel employees were embarrassed by being offered money for a service they were happy to provide.
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Old Jan 13, 2011, 8:07 am
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Originally Posted by jphripjah
I feel weird about handing nicely dressed Asian women money in my hotel room. I also feel weird about handing the bellman money in front of her but stiffing her.
Ah, how many times have I been there?!?!?!

By the way, excellent choice of words in that last sentence! ^
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Old Jan 13, 2011, 9:16 am
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Well, if you want to give away your money that's your thing.

Tipping is primarily an American thing where businesses decided not to pay their employees reasonable wages and instead pass on the cost to their customers. I'm not a fan of this system, and I don't give money to anyone anywhere where if I don't have to. But it's your money... your decision...
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Old Jan 13, 2011, 9:35 am
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Originally Posted by Witold
Well, if you want to give away your money that's your thing.

Tipping is primarily an American thing where businesses decided not to pay their employees reasonable wages and instead pass on the cost to their customers. I'm not a fan of this system, and I don't give money to anyone anywhere where if I don't have to. But it's your money... your decision...
Wait for it....wait for it...
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Old Jan 13, 2011, 9:37 am
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I also feel weird about handing the bellman money in front of her but stiffing her.
Thanks for providing a humorous story to tell my girlfriends at lunch today. Just right. A clean, but not too-clean, joke.
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