couple let me sit between them
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couple let me sit between them
I was on a flight today PVD-PHL and asked to take a middle seat in between a couple traveling together. Oddly enough they didn't move to sit together, they let me take the middle seat. It was a short flight so sitting in the middle wasn't a big deal. However, I thought it was rather odd that they didn't sit next to each other. They would talk and pass things to each other during the flight.
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They're swingers, and that was a coded invitation to join them for some fun?
If they passed things in front of me, I'd certainly arrange to sneeze juicily a time or two at the right times. Or ask them if they'd rather be more comfortable sitting adjacent to each other. Never seen a couple fail to join up under those circumstances.
If they passed things in front of me, I'd certainly arrange to sneeze juicily a time or two at the right times. Or ask them if they'd rather be more comfortable sitting adjacent to each other. Never seen a couple fail to join up under those circumstances.
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Next time something like this happens, tell them that the next item they pass through to each other you will start charging them 50cents as toll-charge!
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I was on a flight today PVD-PHL and asked to take a middle seat in between a couple traveling together. Oddly enough they didn't move to sit together, they let me take the middle seat. It was a short flight so sitting in the middle wasn't a big deal. However, I thought it was rather odd that they didn't sit next to each other. They would talk and pass things to each other during the flight.
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They're swingers, and that was a coded invitation to join them for some fun?
If they passed things in front of me, I'd certainly arrange to sneeze juicily a time or two at the right times. Or ask them if they'd rather be more comfortable sitting adjacent to each other. Never seen a couple fail to join up under those circumstances.
If they passed things in front of me, I'd certainly arrange to sneeze juicily a time or two at the right times. Or ask them if they'd rather be more comfortable sitting adjacent to each other. Never seen a couple fail to join up under those circumstances.
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It's MUCH more fun for them to stiff the guy who they know is playing Unite the Couple, then annoy him by passing things back and forth and talking across the middle seat. The only thing more fun is driving their rental car in the left lane at 5 mph below the speed limit.
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What pissed me off about the whole this is they would pass things to each other with out saying excuse me and spoke to each other during the flight. If you want to do that sit next your partner. I'll take a middle seat any day if i can have my SO next to me.
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What else would you desire? You claimed an undesirable middle seat in the expectation that one of a couple would inconvenience themselves and you would score an undeserved "upgrade" of an aisle or window seat. They called your bluff. Suck it up, or fly an airline with assigned seats.
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Wife and I will almost always call that bluff, even on the DEL-EWR flight. We didn't spend the whole flight talking across the guy or anything, but she wanted her window seat and I my aisle. That's the way it goes some times.
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My wife and I usually do take aisle and window in hopes no one sits in middle. However, if someone does, we rarely unite. Once in a while if we want to watch a video (DVD player), we may unite. We don't pass stuff back and forth much - but once in a while I am sure.
Unite the couple is a game you do not always win. Maybe should have looked further back when they said to take the middle seat.
Of course a real Pro would have an A BP and never need this option - unless a late connection, etc.
Unite the couple is a game you do not always win. Maybe should have looked further back when they said to take the middle seat.
Of course a real Pro would have an A BP and never need this option - unless a late connection, etc.
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Why do they have to? I would prefer window and aisle over a middle anytime. It's called first come first serve which is what you get with the cattle call boarding of WN. Saying they "should" is not right. Squatters rights!
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They're swingers, and that was a coded invitation to join them for some fun?
If they passed things in front of me, I'd certainly arrange to sneeze juicily a time or two at the right times. Or ask them if they'd rather be more comfortable sitting adjacent to each other. Never seen a couple fail to join up under those circumstances.
If they passed things in front of me, I'd certainly arrange to sneeze juicily a time or two at the right times. Or ask them if they'd rather be more comfortable sitting adjacent to each other. Never seen a couple fail to join up under those circumstances.
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I'd be annoyed should I lose the "Unite the Couple" game, but at the same time, touche to the couple who are willing to sit apart. Win some, lose some... we've all been there on both sides of the table.
Whenever I wind up in this situation, I keep in mind that the couple chose not to be seated in the middle, more power to them... I gambled with the assumption they'd want to sit together and voluntarily picked that specific row... and lost.
Probably a bit grumpy over it, and certainly more sensitive to the back and forth passing of items. Should it annoy me enough (working on my laptop while they pass things back and forth) I'd ask if they wanted to sit together.
If they choose not to, there's little recourse except maybe ask for the FA but I don't think I have ever gotten to that point. I figure once I am in that seat, the immediate area in front of me is my personal space and I shouldn't have to be subjected to constant disruption because they want to go back and forth. I won't mind much if I wasn't doing anything, but if I were reading or working, it would be a concern.
For what it's worth, the couple "shouldn't" have to be forced to sit together... they have as much right to sit one seat apart, or an entire aircraft length, should they choose, and I certainly am not in the position to suggest the scoot together so I can get the window or aisle.
Whenever I wind up in this situation, I keep in mind that the couple chose not to be seated in the middle, more power to them... I gambled with the assumption they'd want to sit together and voluntarily picked that specific row... and lost.
Probably a bit grumpy over it, and certainly more sensitive to the back and forth passing of items. Should it annoy me enough (working on my laptop while they pass things back and forth) I'd ask if they wanted to sit together.
If they choose not to, there's little recourse except maybe ask for the FA but I don't think I have ever gotten to that point. I figure once I am in that seat, the immediate area in front of me is my personal space and I shouldn't have to be subjected to constant disruption because they want to go back and forth. I won't mind much if I wasn't doing anything, but if I were reading or working, it would be a concern.
For what it's worth, the couple "shouldn't" have to be forced to sit together... they have as much right to sit one seat apart, or an entire aircraft length, should they choose, and I certainly am not in the position to suggest the scoot together so I can get the window or aisle.